1. Make Sure You’re in the Mood
And by in the mood, I mean calm and, um, not like you need to go to the bathroom. (We’ve all heard the horror stories and the last thing anyone wants is to find out if you can really die of embarrassment). I’m not usually a proponent of using booze as a facilitator in the sack, but in this case, a glass of red wine may help relax your muscles. If you’re too tense or uncomfortable, that back door will lock down like a panic room and ain’t no one getting in.
2. Take Baby Steps
Anal play is your friend! There are tons of nerve endings surrounding your anus, so take advantage of this little-explored pleasure center by asking your man to use his mouth and fingers. Also, if you’ve had trouble reaching orgasms in the past, you might find that it’s just what you've needed to send you over the top.
3. There is No Such Thing as Too Much Lube
If there’s one thing you take away from this list, it’s that anal sex = lube. Unlike the vagina, the anus doesn’t m
