well iv just joined after sending a load of winks to people in northern ireland and to be honest i got a shit load of replies, so when i got courage to join guess what, most of them have not been online for over a month, which to me seems to suggest that the site admin has generated theese responses to get my interest, so at the end of day one i feel let down and totaly STROKED, but i will wait and see if any one gets in touch and restore my faith