Here's me, ancient but still fir and randy and my gorgeous partner's hormone factory has gone on permanent strike. Being best friends is fine but how to adjust to the change from randy temptress to 'oh yes, that used to be fun'? I confess I don't know which way to jump. I don't want to split up - it is nobody's fault, but I can't face a life of without the sheer fun of lovemaking - it is the only thing which makes sense sometimes. She is aware of the pain caused but she really can't see why it bothers me so much - if only she could remember the times when she couldn't decide whether to laugh or cry during orgasm - usually a mixture of both. I don't suppose this is a rare problem, so has anyone found a satisfactory answer which doesn't hurt either side?
