My goodness the pressure in making yourself appear attractive but not cocky, funny but not desperate, specific but not superior, open minded but not too freaky.....and all the while wondering why people who view your profile don't send a message ("oh my god...it's the outfit....I look too fat...dammit why didn't I suck my tummy in more").....and then you worry you look like a stalker because you look at the same profiles regularly,and then you worry the person might not be genuine and in actual fact you've been stalking a lone male who lives in his mothers basement with nothing but a box of tissues and a stained mattress.
The pressure!
