After a few years of not going out and making friends we've decided to start going out again the only problem is work. I work most weekends and the wife works during the week so going out on a regular basis is a bit awkward. Before the wife haves sex with somebody she wants to get to know them and become friends because this is how it was before we became recluses but when we can only meet people once or twice a month the outlook is bleak so that's our problem.
