Suggestions made in the midst of sex are rarely to be taken seriously. The passion and rush can make us suggest things in the heat of the moment we wouldn't dare vocalise during our day to day tedium.
When my wife asked if I fancied trying swinging I replied with an enthusiastic YES!!!!! However in the cold light of day her enthusiasm waned, mine increased. As both of us carry a few extra pounds, hers was an issue of self confidence. I persisted though and we finally visited a club in Blackpool in 2008.
I had never felt so relaxed in my life. I felt like a kid in a candy store, however respecting my wife's request I did not approach or play with anyone. I loved the freedom of walking around in nothing but a towel knowing everybody was free from judgement and open about their sexual needs. My wife and I made love in "the dark room" with a crowd of eager faces staring in at us (we were never sure if they could see us or not). After we finished we left the room and basked in our pos
