I'm trying to learn the etiquette of swinging. Gestures may have a different meaning depending on the context. In my "green" days, I had no idea that when a lady gave me her phone number, she was expecting more than a phone call. It is partly because I place a high value on friendship, and brotherly (and sisterly) love.
In this context, I would like to know how someone might interpret an invitation to coffee/drinks (sex on the menu, if both parties wish to). Will the other party view it as "timewasting" ? Would love to have comments from the experienced as well as people who prefer this approach ?
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