Another Monday Another wait for Godot ....

I am having the same trouble and have been on for months and unfortunately paid up for a year. I have had nothing but time wasters dont think there are any genuine people on this site

I've been on it 2 months I think it's absolutely a con load of crap

Me to F all like all these apps they are all fake, with fake profiles I've cancelled mine better sticking to the old fashioned way of meeting, get a drink in you and chat to a lassy.

Hey us women have the same problem! You're not alone. I find that they're either far too young or too far away for regular. Maybe change your profile might need something catchy.
Best of luck x

Thank you for all your comments. They help strengthen my forming view that this site is, in truth, more like a funhouse mirror site. There are good reasons why I don't show my face (my profile makes this obvious) and I don't want to impress myself upon anyone who does not seek the 'deal' that I offer. On saying all this it is nice to read genuine responses and my sincere thanks to all of you that have taken your time to read and respond. Maybe 'Waiting for Godot' was too optimistic? The Myth of Sisyphus would seem more appropriate ....... Now, where is that clay boulder of sexual promise? :-)

Have to agree, this site is not all its said to be. Lots of profiles which don't appear to be active and I've found if you do manage to engage in conversation the profile doesn't rep what's being offered. Example experienced swinger looking for meet, when messaged them they sent back a price quote. If I wanted that I would look up the back pages. Then there is the others who will keep you chatting, but never seem to get any further, not even a decline, most answer with "I've never done this before, I'm so nervous", then why join this site it is well documented what it's designed for...

You can go on "The Best" site ever and wait months to chat with someone, much less meet. It depends on your personality and those you connect with. Some have the winning words to meet immediately, others struggle and send out messages saying "Hi," expecting women to fall at their feet. But all in all, it means talking to the right person at the right time. (and by the way....this is a strong hint to not send messages that only say HI).

I, myself, have met many many people here--try going to a social, or start one yourself---advertizing a social, not a sex meet. Who knows who you'll find?

The chat rooms, as previously mentioned, are a great place to get your name out too.

So which character are you in Samuel Beckett's " Waiting for Godot " The philosophical Vladimir or the world-weary Estragon ? As Godot never actually shows up in the play,neither are suitable role models but if you keep trying you will make contact with some very nice people.

Hello everyone and the answer to Fetch1 must be 'both'. Unlike the Godot seekers my waiting stops on the 22nd when this profile will cease to be. The response to my blog shows there are genuine people on here. I wish you all well and better luck in your individual search than I have experienced ..... GF

GentleFella, I tend to agree with you really. I recognise that this is a particular type of site, and I guess you expect to take the rough with the smooth. But there seems to be a high proportion of females who are looking for other females, or couples looking for females etc. There doesn't seem to be a relative proportion of females just looking for a single male? When you do find one, they actually turn out to be something else, like a cam girl just touting for business. Doesn't seem to be a lot of choice for us single guys just looking for some companyaction. And to be honest, I have been on many other sites, and I've not found one that really hits the spot. Good luck though, and if you find one, let me know!

I do understand sassy1234, and I accept that generally as a female you will have a lot of chaff to sort through to get to the wheat. What frustrates me the most (and I am genuine and not looking for a one night shag) is when I do meet someone's profile requirements and send them an appropriate introductory message, in 95% of cases I get no response. I get it, it's a dating site (of sorts) and I'm not going to appeal to everybody, so surely a 'thanks but no thanks' reply is not too much to ask? That way I don't waste my time looking at profiles that are not right for either party. Just a thought? Or am I being really naïve?

sassy1234, would it be ok if I PM'd you? You may be able to advise me?

Did six months membership not so long back. Absolutely ridiculous, the problem is probably down to the menwomen ratio. You could write the most descriptive esaay as an ice breaker message and not get a reply. I used to have more luck on ** years ago.

To everyone who has responded on my blog ..... Thank you. My membership has now come to an end and I shall be departing this site .... With fond memories and no regrets. For those that have found excitement, happiness and connection may I take this moment to congratulate you. I completely agree with the female contributions which are all remarkably similar ... The man has to stand out and wit and charm are his two most effective skills. Can't disagree with that. Finally ..... Wasn't Rio just amazing and didn't Team GB do astonishingly well? Passion, belief and commitment is a winning combination. Farewell friends.