No attached men please

I wouldn't say that was "weird". More the norm :-) You have to go into this with your eyes open.

Your legs too if you want to have a good time :)

Ah it's the curse of the single man!
Some ladies want a single man but are suspicious that he isn't really single,
Some don't want to touch single guys cos: they think they'll get too clingy or they only want guys who bring a girl....
Some ladies want just the guy but they want him to be married cos that's what they like - and they want to avoid that clingy thing again!

I think all you can do is ask the questions and if you believe them and like them - trust them. Same as you would in any situation.
And if he turns out to be a liar, there isn't 'really' any reason why his drama should be yours. Even an angry wife 'should' be able to understand that you were lied to?

Well, at least mine is honest. Married but looking and have even less desire for drama than you ;)

Doing my job being single is a way of life.

Wet the last thing you need is their dramas and all the grief that goes with it. We always put single or unattached in bold letters on our profile. Then of course its up to you to decide if they are telling the truth, I usually find if they cant accomodate then they are married, not always, but most of the time. Snappy, do you really believe what you wrote? Most wives wouldnt believe that story and most usually blame the woman rather than their man, deluded as they are lol

why do these posts end up with bits missing? My last post has 7 words missing in total, whats that about?

nah hun ,my phone number consists of 11 not 7 lol and as you know YOUR the only one on here that has it.......lol

LOL its done it again ffs!!!!! lol

Hi Cockney.
The first part is based on people I've chatted to and profiles I've read.
The last part: I believe that they SHOULD believe that story yes. Especially if their guy is signed up to a swinging site! But I take the point that love can be blind and many wives would seek to blame the other woman.

Sparra and Sassy.I wiped out my address book etc by accident.If you still have mine I'd love to hear from you.Also,if you are in touch with Chrissie,you can give her my addy ( a holiday in Hawaii would go down very well, at present ) xxx

I agree with cockneysparra1 that the most reliable way to tell would be if they can accommodate or not! just make sure they have enough time to have a quick tidy up first .......... a day or so should do it :)

Honesty is the best remedy. Be upfront as this will shield you from future soap episodes!

It is easy to find out if someone is singing, just have a few chats with them and their respective words will be able to tell you if they are telling the truth

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