10 Lessons I Picked Up from The site

For me, everything is a potential learning experience and everyone is a potential teacher. I've been both student and teacher since I started my exploration in this lifestyle. It seems that the more I learn, the more I sense that there is more to learn. here are a few things I've picked up on my journey:

10. Not everyone who says they will show up for a meetup actually shows up.

9. Those who do show up deserve a closer look. It may be worth it to hang around them more.

8. Foreplay begins long before the actual touching begins. Blow a woman's mind and she'll be more inclined to blow you.

7. On a related note, women appreciate it when men stimulate their senses with things other than penises.

6. Every vaginal exploration is an adventure. No two women's G-Spots appear to be in the same place. It's an excellent excuse for me to poke around some more.

5. When in doubt, go gently.

4. It's a really good sign when you enjoy someone's company outside of the bedroom.

3. It's possible to let someone into your intimate space and still be firm about your personal boundaries.

2. Everyone here has the same intention: to feel good. They just have different ways of achieving that. Some go for the wild sex party. Others go for more intimate one-on-one encounters. Still others go for flamebait messages. Regardless of the reason, the intention is the same: to feel good about themselves.

1. In the end, it isn't just about the sex. It's more about the connection--with others and with your authentic Self.

How about you folks? What did you learn about life, other people and yourselves by hanging out here?

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