The truly sensual, adventurous person derives pleasure from exciting the biggest sex organ of all --- the skin. And those who know what they want in bed are usually the ones who are aware of what the body is craving for and can articulate this.
Passion in sex and lovemaking won't be sustained when one simply focuses on immediate sexual release. Of course, a short duration on the first round is not all that uncommon (no need to be apologetic about this), but whatever follows soon after SHOULD NOT be an immediate drop in interest, but a session that allows for the senses to be excited and the desire to build up again.
Too often, we get limited to movements involving the same old, predictable, in-and-out. Come to think of it, far too many are further limited by poor muscle tone and weak joints (quads, lower back, knees), but until we start to engage the rest of the body (what are those hands, mouth, and tongue doing?), we are going to miss out a lot on the delights that our bodies are really capable of doing.
Sexual prowess is not just about stamina. It's about sensitivity and understanding the reactions we elicit from our partners.
I am a huge fan of caresses that travel all over the body. Touching the genitals doesn't really cut it for sensual beings. Anywhere is free territory, and it's just a matter of exploring and asking permission People are different, as some may not like being caressed on the back, abs, face, or the inner thighs or forearms.
Oral pleasure isn't just about going down on someone to bring him or her to celestial heights. Picture torrid French kissing or naughtily sucking a finger while teasing. I have had my toes sucked once, and felt that I wasn't used to the sensation. However, I adore having my soles tongue-tickled.
Consider how caressing can spice up any chosen sexual position. Hands are not just meant to hold a partner in place (that's what tables, kitchen counters, pillows, and harnesses are for). Run those hands in places that are begging to be touched. Don't hesitate to ask.
The skin can be teased with textures --- wet (lickers are appreciated a lot here), silky, slippery (think massage oil), warm, cool, and even playfully painful (ah, those yummy perfectly-planted love bites do just the trick).
While in the midst of lip-lock or connected at the hips, allow your lover to run his fingers through your scalp on the back of your head, followed by a firm tug. Pair that with a love bite or a swirl of a moist tongue near the jawline, and see if that doesn't unleash the animal instinct in you.
The feeling of vulnerability can heighten the senses and cause a surge in pleasure hormones. Not many realize this, but our bodies can react positively to what could generally be considered kinky --- hair pulling, choke play, and spanking.
For those who have not experienced this, always seek CONSENT and EDUCATE yourself before deciding that you are going to be a Dominant. Unless partners both agree to include these in their sex menu, the first time may not end up being pleasant at all. If one person is gung-ho about being into kinky and pain play, but the other isn't, that's plain exploitative and abusive. Not sexy.
Which brings up another dimension of sexual prowess, that is, control. Where do you draw the line when crazy sex becomes too crazy? Is this safe, sane, and consensual?
The choices are immense. Before you start envisioning incorporating any theme into your bedroom fun, ask yourself, am I ready to step out of my comfort zone? Can I be honest about what I would like to try and have the courage to admit it? Am I willing to be more sensitive about what my partner would enjoy so that I can make myself more available to provide it?
Think of dry humping (clothes on), grinding, ass grabbing, nail-digging, showering and lathering, restraining, playing with ticklers, silky fabrics, leather, a feather, using ice cubes, massagers, vibrators, chocolate syrup, whipped cream, ice cream, and so on.
Let your curiosity open doors to more fun and adventure. All it takes is an imaginative touch. 
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8:04 pm Sunday, 24th April, 2016
Its a shame that some are so focused on self interests that they become blind to their immediate surroundings. A true master of the senses and arts of devine pleasure could be right under ur nose and NVR seen... The purest pleasure begins with a bond of brutal honesty and acceptance... Trust in its purest form opens the door to intimacy on a universal level.. And most will never even fathom its pleasure never mind experience. It.. Satan tlga.. And the search continues |
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8:06 pm Sunday, 24th April, 2016
*sana... Not satan |
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5:29 pm Monday, 25th April, 2016
True |
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11:28 am Tuesday, 26th April, 2016
Mist take pleasure in the deception of others. |
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11:50 am Wednesday, 27th April, 2016
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10:10 am Friday, 29th April, 2016
As a couple, Nicole and I have always been very technical about sex. We always try to prolong that wonderful sensation because we see the big orgasm as the end to the activity.
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2:20 pm Monday, 2nd May, 2016
can we have sex?
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2:52 pm Thursday, 19th May, 2016
The ideal behind pleasures and passions is to experience things even beyond the literal sense. I enjoyed reading this. I for one appreciate the feminine figure, everything excites me. Her tender lips her skin .. the intimacy felt within each touch like a volcano about to erupt. |
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7:18 pm Thursday, 19th May, 2016
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7:05 am Saturday, 21st May, 2016
Myst.. This IS a perfect venue, as this ENTIRE Blog from it's initial entry is nothing more than one big Deception. It is a work of Fantasy (a good one at that). If this were creative writing class I would grade you a 97%. But at the root, it is a fairy tale, a vision in your mind that although have not experienced in reality you imagine how sensual and arousing it could be.
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8:35 pm Monday, 30th May, 2016
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