It seems like a new season of events has started again but we are busier than ever. The last "season" happened sometime in Christmas last year and a little into January but that time as well we couldn't participate in anything cos we were apart form each other. We did get a lot of prospects then but the planning never worked out in the end and we didn't meet anyone.
Recently we've been getting a lot more messages now though they seem to be automated and they just say stuff like send us a message or we are interested but so far, any time we message back we haven't had a follow up on the interest in us. I guess they used up their daily limit of messages or they probably found someone else to have fun with them. Back when we joined this site last year, we used to be online every day looking for other people but we've gone online even less now, partly due to the fact that we are way busier than before and partly due to the fact that we think we may not meet someone on this site.
In the last post, some veterans of this site gave us some tips on how we could change that, thanks for those tips. There was a somewhat general consensus that, couples were the people most willing to agree. Someone even likened the females on this site to unicorns, which had me laughing though it is true. While it may be true that couples are the best way, we are not sure if we are ready for that yet. In another post I read somewhere, another veteran said that to properly appreciate swinging or this lifestyle in general, you have to do it yourself and go meet people in public places like bars, parties etc. and meet them face to face.
This got me thinking on how one would go about doing that, there are plenty of people to meet in bars but exactly how would you broach the subject? You can meet someone and connect but do you say something like "So... would you be down for a threesome later?" Somehow I believe that line is going to get a drink thrown in my face (lol) or even get me thrown out of the bar. Not saying anyone should use that line but you get what I mean.
This is one of the reasons I appreciate this site, as it allows like minded people (perverts hahaha) like ourselves meet each other without society judging us. We are able to carry out our fantasies and have a good time with each other (still pending for us). Now I'd like to ask, has anyone tried picking up people in public places? BTW fubus don't really count cos it's fine to have a fubu, the challenge is in telling them that there are two of you. If you have had experiences of picking up people, please do share ;)
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3:56 am Tuesday, 22nd March, 2016
Experimenters here. PUAs do a lot of bar pickups so we tend to shy away from that. We've played around with doing something different every now and then in a casual way devoid of expectations.
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