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i sit here drinking my coffee, watching the world go bi...

9:01 am Sunday, 20th March, 2016

Is it a growing trend?
Are more and more people really experimenting sexually with those of the same gender?

It has become morally acceptable now to have a same sex relationship.. Hell we have gay marriages, it wasn't that long ago you could be arrested for being a practising homosexual.
So it only seems right that the evolution of same sex relationships would see straight people "dabbling"...
Now, theres nothing wrong with dipping yours toes, or anything else for that matter!!
I am a firm believer that you cannot say you do not like something until you have tried it...
We are infinitely curious beings, and thank christ we are, otherwise we might still be living in caves and bashing women over the head with our club as a mating ritual.. Although there are a number of people that haven't moved much beyond that..
Being curious we are gonna want to find out..
Or maybe its deeper than that, a latent desire..something repressed all your life.
Either way, it boils down to the same thing...being straight seems to be a growing minority today.

So, the million dollar question....
Have you tried it and what was the attraction of it to you...
Or are you planning on trying it and can i watch..



Comments
6:10 am Monday, 21st March, 2016

" Chaque un a son gout " which,if my schoolboy French is remembered correctly is " everyone to their own " I am not judgemental about anything providing no harm is caused.If people want to be Jedi Knights, Jeremy Corbyn supporters, watch Britain's Got Talent, eat frogs legs, drive a pink car or have same sex relationships, I say Good Luck to them ! For my part however, I do not like the thought that the fore-going might be made compulsory. On the whole, I think I prefer having had eighteen stone prop forwards out to dismember me, , Argies intent on blowing me to pieces or suffering Chris Evans on Top Gear ! lol.

2:20 pm Monday, 21st March, 2016

Sally, my delightfully fragrant knicker flasher,you are of course,absolutely correct. The notion is preposterous ,even by my convoluted, mental meanderings. If one day,you should honour me with say,a dinner date ,I would not appear like Corbyn but would be well-groomed and immaculate, unless of course you have a " thing " about tramps, scarecrows and scruff bags ,with totally impractical thought processes ! xxxx

5:28 pm Monday, 21st March, 2016

I think the blog is being hijacked by the Jezza appreciation society!!

Sally, not overthinking this, quite the contrary... I onow my sexuality, i have been attracted to men but i am not gay or bi sexual..., when push came to shove, i discovered that it wasn't for me.
But in the spirit of blogs, i pose a question and we all wait with bated breath (hate that term, makes it sound like you have maggot breath) for the next gem of a response that makes us laugh.. Or perhaps thats just me.
Fetch sir...god forbid you turned...there would be too many distraught ladies in the world that would need consoling..
Actually, on second thoughts... Theres a really nice pub near Leicester square, the breif encounter.. Will be right up your street...

Sassy, if you can switch from coffee to tea then as you say anything is possible...
I just feel sorry for poor neglected roger...he served you so well and thats how you repay him..you hussey!!!
Ron, i am glad you could accept you kids choices..i know had mey decision been different it is something i could never have told my parents.

And finally OIC, are you nuts??? Or is this some peanut allergy!

Also, almost forgot, Free, i didn't see you response before it disappeared..
Please repost, i always love to hear from you.

9:40 pm Monday, 21st March, 2016

Ahh, makes perfect sense now.
So the question is..did she chew chew?

6:01 am Wednesday, 23rd March, 2016

Mr Welcum.Thank you for your kind remark but I fear that you greatly over-estimate me. Far from consoling ladies the most that I aspire to,is being tolerated.

10:14 am Wednesday, 23rd March, 2016

Fetch...
I was suggesting that should you decide to, erm...bat for the other team, then there would be a void that would need filling and a vast quantity of females that would need consoling because of the loss.
It was only a suggestion to allow us mere mortals to get a look in.
Please do not do yourself a mis justice, even if self deprecation is a very British trait..

Burning, something seems a little odd.
Dunno, just can't put my finger on it?
Have you ever considered a sex change?

11:41 am Wednesday, 23rd March, 2016

Sassy, Can I pick which foot?
.....hmm...both please

11:43 am Wednesday, 23rd March, 2016

Oh cobbler's,
Just seen last but one post...
Should have been bunning not burning..
Grrr...Damn you spellchecker

2:48 pm Thursday, 24th March, 2016

I am not at liberty to discuss any new or pre existing fetishes...
However it hasn't been unknown for me to get my tongue around a ladies foot.

Bunning, I must apologise for my temporary insanity, it was brought on by a mutual friend of ours...she knows who she is!!!

1:54 am Friday, 25th March, 2016

Sassy,
You know me too well..
Which is why pleading your innocence is pointless..
Are you gonna deny us that night, the fun we had..
High heels, stockings and a whip..
It wasn't a dead horse that was flogged that night i can tell you..
But if you want to keep it our naughty lil secret...thats ok, i won't tell a soul.

9:23 am Friday, 25th March, 2016

Sassy
I may have bad memory,
But at least i don't have bad memory

11:29 pm Tuesday, 29th March, 2016

I would like to at this point ask if I can take the fifth ammendment.
All I can say on the matter is I don't recall any donkey but I do recall something about a goat and a recently disgraced footballer...
Now if only I could recall what the link was?

4:52 pm Wednesday, 30th March, 2016

((((coughing))))) Sorry to be back to OP. I took again a long time to reply this blog. I tend to reflect much too long on certain topics. Not a bad sign but here my thoughts.

Well, I have been asked many many times if I would ever be with another woman, and the answer has always been the same. I am not even really curious atm. If I am completely honest, I do admire female beauty. I mean how you could admire beautiful ladies who are just sublime. However, I don't see them in any other way. I love men (especially in suits) even more.

I have to add, I am happy to see the world is changing and accepting more this kind of relationships. It is not happening everywhere but big steps are given towards a better understanding. less hatred and more open-mindness. I truly think I am lucky to see all these changes during my life time.

Now, I would never say no 100% but I guess it is again the right moment and the right people at the right time :)

2:06 pm Thursday, 31st March, 2016

OIC, I just meant Original Post...:) You are safe (ish)...

Meemee: I have heard many people with the same sentiment as you do. I find it fascinating and I guess it just makes me think what a great way to think.

4:15 pm Thursday, 31st March, 2016

Peachie, I take on board your point and do agree that there will be variable levels to how far individuals dabble..
You gotta start somewhere, which is where curiosity comes into play...

It's got me thinking, after looking through the posts and making the simple conclusion that most responses are from females..
I started to look at my circle of friends and from the female side I would say that most females I know are straight but about there is a number that are bi or at least curious and only two are lesbian, they are partners.
From the males, again most are straight, a proportion are gay but not one is bisexual..

That demographic just may simply be exclusive to me although I think it probably isn't..
By all means tell me I am talking cobbler's (as usual) if I am, but I believe that you will find a similar make up across societies.

5:36 pm Thursday, 31st March, 2016

Oic,
I do love facts and figures...it appeals to my inner geek..I am sure if I had the inclination I could find out the percentage for each group..there are enough surveys done that ask those very questions...but I thought it would be far easier for me to let you guys do the hard work...I'll just set the exam question.

Peachie, it is far more acceptable to see two women kissing than two men and likewise women being bi sexual is accepted far more readily than men being bi...this fact is clarified by my strictly gay male friends who ostracise bi males for wanting sex with both males and females..

Sassy, what's a profile??

Sally, it is proven males can't multitask, their brains do not function in a way to facilitate useful multitasking..therefore expecting a male to read and maintain an erection is grossly unfair.

1:33 pm Friday, 1st April, 2016

I totally agree sue..
I certainly enjoy two females together,
In fact I have a few dad's on the subject and have studied them quite extensively...very, very extensively

1:26 pm Sunday, 3rd April, 2016

Anyone girls from Wollongong availableimg src="imagesadultemoticons030.gif" ?

6:41 pm Monday, 4th April, 2016

Sassy, it wasn't a Freudian slip..
I study dad's all the time, why, I was in my element when Dad's Army was made into a film.
I even had an offer to have chocolate licked from my naked body by a particular dad that frequents the chat....Yeh you know who you are you hairy beast...
Anyway, changing direction slightly, the ol profile thingy has got me intrigued..
So what you saying, a profile is like the sun newspaper.

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