i am sure that many of us in this site are still having inhibitions and fears almost about everything and anything. I cannot blame you since there are plenty out there who are not into the idea of beneficial reciprocity. i myself, i dont treat any of my mates someone lesser than me. Believe it or not, I love to treat women as my equal and i am very gentle and respectful. Why? It is because they deserve it. I cannot find any pleasure in a relationship that i alone dictates. Both parties must enjoy and must agree on what sort of relationship or encounter they would want to engage in. It has to be in reciprocity. Give and take. win-win approach, call it whatever you want... but the point of the matter is... both must enjoy! and to all the guys out there... be gentleman enough to let your partner/s feel the joys and pleasures of this wonderful encounter, for it will always be part of your history and great memories.
