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Everything in the world is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power. (Oscar Wilde)

5:21 pm Monday, 7th March, 2016

I'm feeling doubt full this will get read but will remain optermistic.
Most people love to view it...even go straight for it in some book with out reading First lol that's why I'm wondering if this will actually get read. But hey...lets give it a bash...Fetish and erotic Art...I wanted to have a little of my work up on here for one reason really. I came on here not just for a bit of play put for the maybe chance of finding a partner. Now...if that's the case what I do for a living is kinda important as it puts food on my table and therefore comes first. I have a profile on a certain networking site ware I've had gf's look on there, and go ballistic!! just because Ive chatted to female friends I'm doing work of. So guess now you see why I like to mention it just makes it esier. My main bread and butter as such isn't fetish and erotica though It's Vanilla, that's normal kind of stuff if you've not come across the phrase or wondered about it if you have and not understood. I cant mix the two...one would kill the other and the remaining one wouldn't feed me and pay my bills. But I have a thing for textures and the way it reacts with the human body. The stronger stuff is something I just have a understanding of after being around it all for such a long time. I've even dated in the trade so kind of brings on a little of the understanding of fetish and kink. A fetish in it's full term is actually a fixation to something but normally used as an explanation for sexual arousement from something other than a sexual organ. And that has a massive range. A kink involves the sexual organ, Some times some people think that because...Now this is whare things get more complex as it can be more based on mental sexual arousel through the physical senses as a whole...when it's bdsm and I can explain that only to a point, it's a mixture sometimes of both the sexual organ and pain, and will at times include instant relief. But degrading and humiliation also pay its part but that's ware psychology takes over more. But I transgress lol I have two fetishes and that's latex and feet. I do have a soft spot about legs though. So hence why I always aim for a shiny material when I source something to draw. Preferably latex though but I still enjoy drawing rubber. I'm talking back along the lines of my art tastes here again now lol...you want to know my sexual...come and talk to me...I only bite if I've gotten to know you and found out you like it lol. But my first blog mentions my introduction to fetish and how it lead me more down the path of drawing bdsm. And to that degree my clients grew quickly as my name got passed acros and around the Dominatrix's clients lists. Not up here in the NE but around London and Essex ware I use to live. Most know each other, even if there Dom's do or do not know it. Some times my work would get handed out as tributes, but rare I would get asked by the Dominatrix. That would only tend to come about as a vanilla piece and taboo to mix private and client life. And again, part of the play is for the sub or sissy to go do the fetch.
So a little insight but I'll write a little role play on the next blog, promise. Wont be so cardboard lol If you haven't read my first blog it shows my writing style a little better. It's a bit of a better read.




Comments
11:52 pm Monday, 7th March, 2016

Usually "kinky" is an unusual taste in sexual behaviour but has a huge amount of definitions as in foot sucking as an example :)

12:42 am Tuesday, 8th March, 2016

I'm going to come back on that as it goes...and maybe I've used the wrong grammar...a person can have a kink...I use the example of the foot again....and that same person would look through a shoe catalogue and see some pictures as kinky...im trying not to sound like a know it all or being up my own.... here lol

5:06 am Tuesday, 8th March, 2016

As you quote from the great Oscar Wilde, I will give you one which may inspire you.It was written for a character in an operetta,who was closely drawn on him. " If your anxious for to shine,in the high aesthetic line, as a man of culture rare.You must gather all the germs of the transcendental terms and plant them everywhere "
There is no need to thank me for this " I have nothing to declare except my genius " ( anther Wilde quote ) LOL.

5:12 am Tuesday, 8th March, 2016

Sally, would you consider that pleasure drawn from a picture of a lady hitching her flimsy dress to give a hint of her " Mount of Venus " whilst subtly exposing a delicate nipple, to be kinky ? If so, I plead guilty . xx

5:30 am Tuesday, 8th March, 2016

Always good to meet another fan of Oscar Wilde..a genius in both mind and scribe....I didnt want to sound as if I was being demeaning in any way to sally...that was the last thing on my mind...manners to me are important.

3:29 pm Tuesday, 8th March, 2016

Very well put Sally...me bad to the point of taking it readers of this blog to be kinksters. Figuring I've spent too much time in that kind of environment : lol

6:34 pm Tuesday, 8th March, 2016

Thanks Ken..I appreciate both...The red work is something I've only just gotten to grips with. Just trying to find a medium that worked for me took a while.

3:47 am Wednesday, 9th March, 2016

yeah...I'm working on an exhibition series at the moment...it's to be here in Kendal in May...I broke records for the most amount of prints sold in 1 venue after being told my work will never sell here in the lake district but I have invitations for the Unit in Lancaster as well as the montreal fetish weekend...I've been promising to do the latter for ages. I did the owner Eric a commission a while back and was given the invite...I've done loads of venues in the past. I even spent a chunk of time out in Croatia....bit long winded reply lol but always looking for venues here in the UK :)

5:35 pm Wednesday, 9th March, 2016

oh it's here Ken lol it's just such a tight knit community and the towns so small that it's well hidden. I grew up in Essex and my playground use to be london so I'm kind of...an import lol I've only been up here for 4-5 years but I'm already treasurer to the main art society.

5:39 pm Wednesday, 9th March, 2016

Thank you sassy....Lucky girl :) I'd have loved to have seen that. I did an exhibition with Black Lotus in Paris many years ago....before the owner moved back to Amsterdam....completely different feel to art and it's subject matter. I really appreciate your comment X!

10:23 pm Wednesday, 9th March, 2016

not a problem mate

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