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What would it take for you?

6:21 pm Sunday, 10th January, 2016

A friend of mine said that she would lap dance, although she didn't really approve of it as it was exploitation, to feed her children. She didn't think she could have sex for money.
This got me thinking about what it would take for me to break my own, what shall we call it... balk point or taboo. Perhaps it is something you would do with an opposite gender partner, which you wouldn't do with one of the same gender, or vice versa. For me it is more a question of circumstances. The stakes for which the breaking of my 'balk' would occur would affect if I could break it.

So now I am curious, what would it take you?



Comments
6:31 am Monday, 11th January, 2016

I suppose the truth is,if you care passionately about someone or something and it over-rides everything else in your life,there are no limits to what one would do to protect and nurture this.

1:26 pm Monday, 11th January, 2016

Thanks Fetch, but lets extend it to being paid only, so no needing to care for element. Is there a figure that would be too good to say no? Do we all have a price?

6:03 am Tuesday, 12th January, 2016

This is a very wide and profound subject ,Erik and don't think one could really quantify it. People's motives for their actions are so wide and varied. Just to give a couple of examples. If you are in paid employment are you bound to follow the instructions of your employer if they're illegal or immoral ,even if you are offered incentives to do so ? Some will concur, others will stand by their principles and refuse.If one is in desperate straits having others who depend upon you ,do you grab what you can or not ? There is no definitive answer ,in my view.The only exception I can think of,is if you are serving in the armed forces and are called upon to kill someone but then you know what the rules are and where your duty lies,so it is not really a question of money. The downside of this,is that one has to carry this for the rest of one's days and learn to live with it.
Sorry I can't really answer your question.

8:05 am Tuesday, 12th January, 2016

Even if someone offered me a million quid, I would not "submit" to a "mistress" or be rogered with a strap-on :-) Male principles and pride are at stake here. Call me the "Sir Thomas More of adult dating" if you like :-) It's just that the recent slew of fake domette profiles aimed in my direction recently don't seem to have got the message yet.

10:11 am Tuesday, 12th January, 2016

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8:44 pm Tuesday, 12th January, 2016

What would it take me? a bottle of whisky. A large bottle!

OK.....have to clarify...no, alcohol would not force me to do anything I am morally opposed to. Just would loosen the inhibitions to allow me to do what I'd previously considered doing, just might not otherwise have the courage to do.

But as to the topic...what would it take me to do something I was really opposed to? Dire circumstances. If i really felt that doing "it" whatever it was would get me out of a situation that i otheriwse would be trapped in, I'd do almost anything. The key word however is trapped, and we all know there are always alternatives.

6:42 pm Wednesday, 13th January, 2016

Thanks guys really appreciate comments. Think EG has it in the dire circumstances or trapped situation. Don't honestly think I can answer for myself unless I was in the situation. There are things I do for love that I wouldn't do otherwise. Some things I would struggle with in any circumstances. Having been abused the mental issues are greater than physical for some relatively tame activities. Could never be a lie back and think of England.

7:17 pm Wednesday, 13th January, 2016

On a slightly random tangent: You can never really know what you're capable of when faced with some impossible circumstance or psychological horror. Could you hack your right arm off with a pen knife if caught between a rock and a hard place, with no hope of escape?
Fascinating book and highly recommended - Aron Ralston, 127 Hours Between a Rock and a Hard Place

Sorry Erik - it's not the sexiest of answers ...

9:49 pm Wednesday, 13th January, 2016

Luv2--You have a great point there. We don't know what we're capable of, but we also don't know the whole story in many cases. And one thing that's wise to remember: We see people sometimes in what we may consider strange positions (figuratively OR literally!!) and think....that's just weirdoddsick. But the flip side of the coin is that we probably don't know their story or how they got there. I try to use judgements sparingly for just that reason.

1:26 pm Thursday, 14th January, 2016

Luv2sucU, I don't mind at all that your eminently sensible answer isn't sexual, it is none the less valid and many people have survived by amputating, and in some cases eating, as well as eating human flesh of others. EG also has it correctly that without the whole story ( and who ever has that) we should not judge .... Let he who is without sin cast the first stone so to speak. On a so called sexual note, you say the circumstances, including personal history, define the situation. Chocolatelover, Nookiee bear was originally called Poo before Roger became famous. If you asked him why he was called Poo he would reply 'Cause I F...ing fart.'

3:05 pm Thursday, 21st January, 2016

I have no limits ile do anything

4:34 pm Thursday, 21st January, 2016

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6:08 pm Thursday, 21st January, 2016

Thanks for your comments guys

12:47 am Friday, 22nd January, 2016

I'd try a few things very curiousimg src="imagesadultemoticons030.gif"

12:47 am Friday, 22nd January, 2016

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4:12 am Friday, 22nd January, 2016

: ). My sex changes with my partners. Recently I've begged or been left begging for something I have no interest or inkling. Now I'm up for it. When I feel My partners passion rise I've always encouraged selflessly. I couldn't order sex like I do food. I would have to wait halfway through the meal. :). Hope that translates. ?

8:18 am Friday, 22nd January, 2016

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9:20 am Saturday, 23rd January, 2016

As a wise man once said...I would do anything for love, but I won't do that.

11:26 am Saturday, 23rd January, 2016

I agree that your partner affects what you are prepared to try. Men, if you like anal, surely you should receive it as well? Might at least improve your understanding of what you are asking of your partner, after all you should give and take lol.
Meatloaf (I think you are quoting) And I will do anything for love, but I wont do that - is that correct Doctorzook and the medicine men?

12:42 pm Saturday, 23rd January, 2016

Erik: Interesting point. No way I'd ever get rogered with a strapon, and (strangely enough) I prefer the receptacle that Nature ordained for Dixon (i.e not the sewer). Call me a bluff old traditionalist and bore, but I am what I am...... :-)

7:29 pm Saturday, 23rd January, 2016

Skebbie, as you say, we is what we is!
I suppose it would be logical to extend it to oral sex as well, I mean can you equate sucking Dick to sucking pussy. Having been forced as a kid to do the former, and enjoyed the latter, I at least know what 'she' might be doing for me , not her.

7:30 pm Saturday, 23rd January, 2016

That was forced as a kid

7:31 pm Saturday, 23rd January, 2016

To do the former, and other things

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