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Single Males Left Out?

10:20 pm Monday, 7th December, 2015

So I have been on this site and even though i havent actually met with anyone from here, i have interacted with quite a few. I just felt its weird that a lot of the couples and women on the site want only couples and women, especially the couples. I am not sure whether the women are more interested in having a bisexual encounter or whether the men in the couples do not want to return the favor to the wives. From my personal interaction with quite a few people, i find that quite a lot of the accounts are operated by the husbands and the wives are not really interested in proceeding with a threesome of any kind and the husbands are looking for other women to try and hook up with. Although i am not at all trying to say that there are no genuine couples here, (I have interacted with quite a lot of them too and unfortunately things couldnt progress because i wasnt deemed good enough which is perfectly acceptable to me), i do feel that the couples arent very open to other men which maybe they should be.

Also i do hope that people are looking for a lot more than just a stud when they are looking for a sexual partner. I am not a greek god by any stretch of the imagination but i do feel that i would be very good regardless. I just feel its time that women and couples move beyond just good looks as a way of finding sexual experiences coz it may lead the initial attraction but the actual sex is not necessarily going to be great.

Anyway Thats my first post. I hope people read and like it :) Please do comment your views whatever they are, positive or negative. I would love to hear them as long as you are civil in doing so.



Comments
3:58 pm Tuesday, 8th December, 2015

Hi, I know the feeling that your post describes. Getting to the point, I have been user of this website since a year. I once met a husband from my area who is into wife swapping and group sex, so every thing under is based on my experience. In India, sex is still considered a taboo. Even if you are married and refer sex with your wife in public, you will be looked as if you are propagating Jihad. leave alone threesomes and orgies. There is a general mentality among Indian mencouple that if my wife is getting an extra guy, I need extra girl. Or If my wife is fine with it, I'll get extra girl for myself. But when it comes to the point where wife needs an extra guy, it's a big no-no.

To add to woes, couples that are willing to have extra guy in bed need guys who have good built are clean shaven or ready to paybear all their expenses.

Another problem is security. Even if you convince a couple to get you in their bed, they will be concerned over security. Mark my words, they will ask about secrecy, then if there won't be an legal troubles and so on.

I still haven't understood how another couple ensures of security. Any person can be bad, its not written anywhere.

My best opinion would be to be single and still get couples,
1) Have loads of money
2) Have Loads of money and be a stud.
3) Have your own place where you can host.
4) Find a female partner to balance out things.

6:23 pm Tuesday, 8th December, 2015

well i agree with most of what you guys have said. Just to make clear, i am not bad-mouthing couples here. Just wanting to know their point of view and i dont really know if any couples have read this blog but it would be amazing to get their perspective on it.

3:18 am Thursday, 10th December, 2015

Completely agree with your thoughts. Although I have interavted with a few and met someone through this site, but it has been really that fruitful. There are hardly genuine ladies or couples who actually want to hang out with decent couples.
Most of them wont reply. I wonder if messages go out to them. Still waiting for liberal people to join and interact with all of us.

4:31 pm Sunday, 13th December, 2015

True guys Dont want to repeat the same story as you have already posted.. I feel there is organized brothel out here finding genuine people kind of lottery

Anyways off the topic
Any orgy happening in and around Bangalore I heard there are some parties where single male a are welcome.

12:22 pm Monday, 14th December, 2015

Completely Agree With You.

5:50 pm Wednesday, 16th December, 2015

yaa absolutely right

1:37 am Friday, 18th December, 2015

Interesting post. Certain observations are quiet precise especially in the Indian context.

6:51 am Saturday, 16th January, 2016

I have been using this site for around 3 months. Truly speaking I have not met anyone till date.

9:01 am Friday, 26th February, 2016

Hey Varun Nice blog.....worth for other cpls to READ IT...Mine also Same....Neither Met any Female or Any geniune Couple......Most of Couple prefer Female OR other cpls...may be they might be real cpls...but most of them are only husbands who like to see others wife or female...BUT AFRAID OF SHARING THEIR OWN WIFE WITH SINGLE MALES.....and most cpls have thier face masked or watermarket...hope its their REAL profile photo........WELL HAPPY TO SEE THAT ALL SINGLE GUYS ARE STRONG AND BRAVE ENOUGH TO SHARE THEIR REAL PHOTOS WITH ALL FRIENDS.....NO MASK NOTHING....thankz...this is my own point of view....

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