New Swingers in town..

If you know there is a potential for problems, it ain't worth the risk.
Sites like this are like a honeypot for trolls, and i don't mean the goat worrying type.
But don't start panicking, as a couple you don't need to advertise with pics,
Just make yourselve known on the blogs and in chat and you will soon learn who the real profiles are and who is fake....
Above all, get to know people first before giving up any personal info to them...don't rush into the first request you get and if it seems to good to be true, it probably is.
Good luck out there and have fun.

Thanks for the info guys...I have no shame in making the decision to do this but I am conscious of making those around me uncomfy (unless you ask nicely!)..Im quite proud of us really...yayyy us!!! it was just the other couple made a strong point for being able to see faces that it made me think. I have to say for such a media portrayed blatant bunch of deviants your not half bad .....Thanks x

You have an arch nemesis?

I always wanted one of those as a lad, quite glad I haven't now!

I have a have a few Dok..Took years to cultivate and encourage to grow and now they run on their own steam...;) x

Miss Valiant...I have to show some female appreciation of the pic...WOW!!...Yea I've had a few messages already which have been a smidge odd but its all good coz apparently I now have a butler and a trip to Sri Lanka to look forward to and I thought I was just here for the naughty stuff.....

Miss V,
How did you know, did i leave the webcam active...again?
Note to self..post it note over cam when perving profile's.

Doublefun...there has been a lot of very, very, very active members appearing from that neck of the woods...them alarm bells are just starting a jangeling..... Or it could be Santa getting ready for Christmas..not made me mind up yet.

pic are a must for us but do not do face until a meet is getting near as not going to meet old and fat sorry....
have seen pic used by online dating site as on things like porn hub but may not been take form this site as we have not lost pic and are happy with security here that why you (we) pay ...

Hi
We did have images posted however we came across them outwith the site so decided to remove them (horse stable door springs to mind) damage limitation! As wither no images put people off making contact is a difficult one in that what makes you decide you want to have sex with someone its how they look, shallow as it may sound its a fact. There are those on the site for a variety of reasons are unable to post images most will say that they will provide images to those genuine people who make contact which you have got to take at face value. That raises another question who is genuine the images posted may not be of the portfolio holder. Our own experience is we made contact with a male who had posted images which did float our boat arranged to meet the images were so out of date we didn't recognise the guy we did in the end cause he got the bums rush. All in all take your time and weigh up the information provided in the text of the profile. As an asides very recently there seems to be a greater number of profiles appearing no images posted the categories are marked up I will tell you latter what's that all about? Anika Rice had more clues!

Hi tinto..It seems crazy to post images that don't reflect who you are!! What a disapointment. As for the 'tell you later', yeah I don't get that either..If your gonna 'tell me later' that you drink its not creating an air of mystery..We need a helicopter and saucy jumpsuit!!..... How do you view the pics? Do you like the dirtier ones or the 'look how sociable' I am pics?..........Wellcum....Is it really true that my woods are now teeming with swingers?..Only been on a week' ish so no point of reference.Its interesting that theres a few in my village..but I'm now looking at everyone in a different light...Have decided to jump in with both feet and go to a party next week..Any advice? Any one done this and did you split up or stay together to swing??? B x

Have a good time in Sri Lanka! There is a good swingers scene there too!

Hastingshimher (or yoda!). yeah, you are right..Have been completely overthinking every aspect of this. Met a couple for a coffee on Saturday and feel altoghter more relaxed about the whole thing....I also think once we pop our cherry, meet more people and get more involved then all the silly worries will disappear! Thanks B x