Your Pics says alot about you

We believe everybody is beautiful if ppl are fit healthy and hygenic. However ppl don't know how to differentiate between a sexy photo or a sleazy one. Sleazy one tuns mood off and infact does not potray ppl in an attractive manner . Which is a negative we guess

You are right pics can help to know standard. Of ppls you are connected. With.

@boldnbeautiful1 your remonstration and aversion is over an issue that should perhaps be considered merely a matter of taste and individual preferences. Concurring completely with you on a personal level, my initial reasoning attributed it also to an individual’s ‘class’ and ‘education’. But accepting that logic opens up a Pandora’s box of issues that will make most couples here see red. For example, almost without exception, you will see all those ‘classy’’highly educated’’really mature’etcetc couples fervently desiring a single female to join them, but without fail they would be intensely squeamish at the thought of being joined by a single male (some really ‘educated’ folks don’t forgot to even add some scurrilous note addressed to all single males)! What’s that?
Likewise, can’t the classy, educated and refined people (I mean the REALLY classy, REALLY educated and refined) be kinky too?
Let’s say ‘to each his choice, his taste’.

P.S. Like I mentioned, on a personal level, I agree with your observations.

'Their angry member'...you mean their upset MP??

I think we all agree that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and totally subjective. However, the fact is all human beings react to certain features naturally. It is part of a subconscious selection.

Physical attractiveness does create a powerful first impression on the mind, so powerful in fact that we may go much beyond looks and simply start generating assumptions about a person's success, status, parenting, and intelligence, even if they prove not to be true.

To be attracted to someone physically is the first step and the natural process of relationships. Now, in the hub, well it is not different. Actually, it is more noticeable. After all, you are in a way, choosing with whom to share an intimate time (to mate). This is why pictures will indeed be vital for that first connection.

Now, pictures are important but they are not all. At least for me, beauty will get you to a first level of contact, but stimulation of the mind will make u cross the line. Now, imagine both together and then, we are talking about an amazing moment together.

My " Most Wanted " picture tells you all you need to know.

@deborose1 :- yes deborose1 , good pics create good impressions and which help us to screen out people at first level and after that we ( ppl) initiate communication.. if next coupleperson are smart and intelligent things click and things goes on.
@welovefriends :- that's exactly the point we want to make.
@Marie ;- there are many weiredos out there :P , cant help it.
@freeforpleasure : very well said, beautiful pics create great impressions and than we subconsciously assume person's status , success and class , all this data helps us in making initial decision. and as u said, its not all, the road ahead completely depends on various other factors too. :)
@hubbydubbyfiji : its not about substandard things, all ppl have good features and assets , its about sometimes even good things wont sell because of poor display.

@deborose good pics create good impressions and which help us to screen out people at first level and after that once communication starts and if next coupleperson are smart and intelligent things click and things goes ahead .
@welovefriends that's exactly the point we want to make
@marie there are many weirdos out there :P , cant help
@freeforpleasure very well said, beautiful pics create great impressions and than we subconsciously assume person's status , success and class , all this data helps us in making initial decision. and as u said, its not all, the road ahead completely depends on various other factors too.
@ hubbydubbyfiji : its not about substandard things, all ppl have good features and assets , its about sometimes even good things wont sell because of poor display.

There is some kind of need for some hardcore picture but on a hole most are just showing of we try hard to show of lol.

Yes, each to hisher choice or taste I would say. This is indeed a very er...."catholic" site :-)
While I would tend to agree (from conversations with women) that male genital shots generally don't do much for the ladies, there *are* a minority who do enjoy a "well-presented penis pic". Similarly from my own viewpoint, point-blank images of the Eye of Sauron do little for me, especially if they glisten in a sort of sinister half-light and resemble something that crawled out of Dr Frankenstein's specimen jar. On the other hand, some pussies are indeed truly beautiful if photographed properly.

In general, though, I tend to be attracted to profiles showing photos of well proportioned women who are slightly on the voluptuous side (as you probably gathered from my "favourites" list :-) The photos don't need to be explicit, because every guy can tell if a woman has a great figure irrespective of whether or not she's clothed. And in turn most women who have great figures know that they don't need to be explicit, even though the have the luxury of confidence in putting up such pics if they so choose.

As I'm a bit "arty", I do have an eye for photographic composition, and am attracted to women who have a good sense of aesthetics because that says a lot about a person. But that is simply a facet of my own particular sense of eroticism and what I find "sexy" or not. Others might get off on lower levels of aesthetics, or even be attracted to "skankiness". We are all different.
Must admit, though, if people put up photos of themselves in environments that show their living space "warts and all", with used tissues scattered on the floor, a Wii console in the corner, items of clothing hanging from the picture rail, and ghastly underwear that looks as though it came out of Primark's dustbins, it doesn't exactly make them look like Playmate of the Year..... :-)

Sorry - forgot to mention all that screwed up silver foil and red paper wrapping next to the Wii :-)

Sassy.I've wondered that too. The best feature of a bathroom is the acoustics. Perhaps the loo seat acts as a mute so those with weak singing voices leave it up ! " A wandering minstrel i ,a thing of rags and patches.Of ballads,songs and snatches and dreamy lullabies "...but not all are blessed with my rich baritone !

Oddly I've just got back from the annual night festival in the Town of Titipu. This isn't fiction :-)

Fantastic approach. Good writeup.

@classynexotic thanks :) we are glad many ppl think the same way :)
@lickswap : you guys are right .. main pic is also imp with all other pics. :))

Agree , ur pic proves what you are. Its really disgusting  to see such pictures.  
You wrote  this very well. Well crafted blog 👍😀

I believe fitness in the mind is more important than fitness in body in this lifestyle. I have had the opportunity to experience anorexic to very fat women,  the more in shape,  the more inhibited they were. My wife says that her best experience has been with pudgy men who she feels,  bring more than the guy with the body and assets. 

I agree,but some people want to be kept private and are afraid to upload images incase their friends or family sees them, any ideas or tips, I am in the same boat.

I would love it if the “blog” I am trying to create would post

To a degree I agree...
The occasional dick or pussy pick, not so bad. Especially if one takes time and effort into the pic; good lighting, well photographed, well groomed, etc. Actual effort. If it's a lazy ass shot of an unflattering hairy sex sausage, not so great and you shouldn't be proud to post or share it.
To me it all comes down to how much effort are you going to put into making your highlights of yourself?
Granted, I've got an unflattering pick or two on here and on my fet. Account, but it happens. By and large I try to make sure what I post is as good as it can be, cuz' I figure; "people are gunna see this... If it's a nude shot, everyone's going to see everything about me; less than average cock, cold balls, hairy ass, everything. I need to make sure I put effort into showing the best side of myself so that I can be proud of it, and so that others could see potential."

Even with my own girlfriendmaster! I make sure if I send a nude or anything remotly provocative I make it look as good as possible.

If you put effort into yourself, it always pays off.

That's just my mentality...

Otherwise... Yeah... I can definetly see where you're coming from... 😑

I think it is good idea to upload private parts... For example,  my wife has no interest if a guy is not circumcised...

Very true. A pic is worth 1000 words?
Well, for my profile, a close look at the pic is worth at least one address.
Please... write! You will like me, a lot, really, you'll be glad you looked close at that pic and sent me a "hello"

Totally agree. Similarly to opening a present, it's good to be surprised after taking off the wrapping. 😊

I agree there is nothing called designer fat

Hii sexy

Could`nt agree more on your views with posting the pics to attract the right kind of people..

Tats true  dear 

true that. It is about aesthetics not cock and vigina close ups

lonely 

each to their own 

I totally agree with you guys

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Agreed.. Some photos showing private parts is really a turn off rather than a turn on...

I like to see 'the full Monte' images always . that goes for literary license to use words like the 'C' word , or hard 'R' in creative , alliterative prose , or poetry . Poetry especially . You can't just go swapping words around in a Poem ! That's on the same level of Ignorance as whoever had the great idea to paint cloths on Michelangelo's nudes on the ceiling of the sistine chapel . It's just not good.

Nice blog

Imagination is the spice of life 

I’m glad that someone has got taste. To see the naked body is great in its place but a partly clothed body is so much more sexy .

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Yeah if you want to put something sexy up dress up not down please 👍😀🌹

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Can we meet xx

Thank you i totally agree. The best picture is the one u pick up and look at it from a different angle hoping to see just a hint of the goods visible. 

As a trans woman lookung to attract others I totally agree with you! I love and enjoy seeing photographs that represent the person and not showing mr happy! I like someone to see me as the total package and my wardrobe is representative of me and how I look! Anyone can show privates...seen one and sen them all.... But a photo should be of an individual not a part!

Yes darling your very sexy very beautiful darling

Sweet potato 

Dear friend, I completely agree with you

Wow

Pics posted by you are very elegant and tasteful. Compliments to you. 

এন Nice work thanks to you

Hello

Sometimes the man of the couple wants to see the cock that's penetrating his mrs.

Wonderful articulated writing.

Well written and informative. Thank you.

So happy you put to words my thoughts.

Everyone is different and yes we tend to stay way from the profiles with raunchier pics too but I would say you are frustrating just as many people because you wont show your face. Now we have to ask for a face pic and if we end up not liking it, we will have to reject you when you could have posted a pic of what you look like and we could've decided before ever contacting you and having to reject you. I get that discretion is needed by a very small percentage of you but not most. If you're not willing to fight for your sexuality then you probably dont deserve it. Hiding wont allow us to one day be free of judgment 

And I would add to that, show your face. If you're not willing to fight for your sexuality then do you really deserve it?

Spark need to Ignite by photo you have described or by conversation  for more meaningful relationships as True Friend which might leads to Companion for Erotic Excellence but not essential.

This is good advice for single people also;). 
I just joined the site, and feel slightly prudent. There’s many folks that confidently know what they want eh. And suppose haven’t dived into the kink scene much... well guess because I lack in feeling like a place amongst 🤷🏼‍♂️ I’ve not had boring sex lol 
Like being adventurous! Versatile comes to mind.
Thou bore think the last few relationships took it out of me and needed to recover... its been awhile, ready to start dating yet maybe I’m not cuz little afraid of getting hurt, thou would like to find someone to share life’s like enjoyments & everyday happenings with eh I don’t think i have the drive currently (surprises me how low it is) for exploring sex, sexual activity until ya I can find ya that spark! 
Gosh seeing a beautiful woman walking by—my eyes pop, temperature rises and my brain thinks I wonder if we would get along, what she’s like not to tell her she’s just gorgeous 

Hi good evening 

I liike fucking only

Some good sense put into this. 

very well put my first time here thanks😘

ya idn now lol after reading everything i’m going to retract my statement and learn a bit more about this site thanks all 

😍Hi dear 

💕Hi dear 

Couldnt agree more ! 

Totally agree. For me, I like a photo that's classy, sexy, erotic with still a little hidden something to look forward to. Will be following for others opinions and perspectives.

HII

Perfectly agree. I don’t see the point of showing someone’s private parts as these don’t show expressions. Can be misleading also..

I guess each to there own. Maybe it’s part of the pleasure for them? I wouldn’t myself. Some things need to remain as private to me. 

Yes , you are right .

i agree with you.

True thing. Actually visited your profile... 

I agree physical features can be so unappealing. I learned a very long time ago while innocently chit chatting on the phone that a Woman needs to neither see nor touch me to be aroused when I discovered all that was needed was for my Lady to hear my voice giving undivided interest in her.

Nice pics. Very tasteful. 

This site caters to many types of people. Some prefer it one way, others prefer it another way. It’s all good.
Among the most reported problems in the communities this past few years is “kink shaming” and the simple wisdom; if it’s not for you, ignore it. 

I want to upload a photo but it for some reason won't let me and I don't know why

Hi

i agree with feeling and good body manner

Are people ever concerned about having photos  shared on platforms other than this?

yeah that's true

HI, I AM HERE

Agree completely! Physically attraction needs to be there and that starts with tasteful photos that also give some insight into whats beneath the surface. 

Hiii

hi

Hi we are really like your profile. 

Totally agree 

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😍 Whole ❤ agree with ur statement. Also for us eroticism is about beauty, the right angle - at fist, pleasing the visual senses, awakening curiosity, desire, possibly even lust...

So sweet 😘😘😘😘😘

That's true. Besides, dick pics are far too many. 

I  hope they know the rules before jumping on here t post sh*t..

I am from Mordern Massage therapy Mumbai

I need help uploading pics

I am way too interested 

I agree

Thankyou for your words ! 
I think perhaps that showing more than needs to be revealed comes from a thought place that it is considered normal maybe. 
So many different views here as we are all learning about each other and this lifestyle. I have been guilty of just putting it out there because in the moment I’m just so horny in my own world and just want it all see it all and then when that passed I think and look and go hmmm bit full on. I know in myself now too just be a little more discreet and take it slow build on the intensity as it is met!! Same as a face to face experience. 
This is the first time sharing thoughts so go easy please.😁

Well said guys 

Totally agree on this one! For us it is a turn off, We want to see sexiness, not a dick of a dripping pussy, we all have those! what would turn us on?? Worse is people that have no pics, if you are that shy of being in the life style, you are just not serious, so why spend time chatting with you!

You have 100% right

Hello

Hiii

But you're willing to have some other man fuck your wife?  Makes no sense to me!

You are exactly right, mate!

yes

Well said guys, well said!

I do spend a lot of time and effort with my photos because it’s really important. I see so many disappointing photos on here and would love to see the quality improve somewhat. Well said.

well stated 

Agree COMPLETELY.   Enough toilet seats in the background too.  🤣🤣

Hii

👌

Yasss

I try to be tasteful with our photographs though we can't help but laugh because it feels so cheesy when taking them

I don't think you are right at all

Hii

A turn on for you may be a turn off for someone else. I think rather than being critical of other couples and their content, I suggest looking for and pursuing the couples that have uploaded content you do appreciate.  After all, all you did here was attempt to elevate yourself over other you see as depraved or whatever. In that mission you were unsuccessful 

Agreed. This is what a person uses as the visual representation of one's self.
Show what you're looking for. Some people are into the utterly degraded, and it's good to know this about the person early-on.
Some people don't care that this is their image, and it's good to recognise this.
Who doesn't know that pictures are there working for us, when we can not be?

Nice

I used to be a pro photographer, you're spot on with the advice. Leave something to the imagination nipple peaks but not full breast for example. Nudes but hold something in front of the parts like leaf, balloon,draped in sheet...or soap bubbles.....if anyone wants help just ask . Good lighting is also key.

thank you🕶️

It’s purely a matter of personal taste. No style of photo is the right style of photo.

v well said

Nice post

hii

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I can't upload any photos at all on this site

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very true 

Right on

If you ask for my opinion, People like me. Needs help I don't have friends to learn from. I could get some online help I guess but it's not going to be the same as someone willing to mold you into the person they want you to be so the best way to tell a story is to make the story. So all can be happy. My I'm starting not knowing what to do but I summited to feminism.Im on Chasity an love it. But no direction to what now

Well described 👌

No I totally disagree. It’s nice for a male to see it all even the guy and even if they are straight like am, the chick may not be hot but her parts compensate and Vice versa. 

From a woman's point of view.  I totally agree with what you have said about taking photo's of body parts or a to see photo's of a man ijeculating on to a woman's face or breasts, is not attractive.  It leaves nothing to the imagination ,  or the build up of excitement if you were to meet them. It's like someone giving you a gift, but before you get to open it, they spoil the whole moment of anticipation, by telling you just what the gift is and describes it in detail. 

hii

Ok

I would love it if more people had actual pictures of them on their profile.  I am tired of the avatars and having no idea what the person or couple actually look like.  
And I agree that we don’t want to see others private parts only as their profile pic.  
It is hard to respond to someone asking for a chat or meet up and having no idea what they actually look like and if there is any attraction to start with. 

Just joined and took some pictures and posted online but does anyone know how one can find someone to take better pictures of oneself please?

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You are so right, photos can tell a lot about a person if you want to meet them. It is nice to see what a person looks like, so you can recognise them if you met up.

You are actually and basically honest with that and i agree with you about the picture as it definately says abit about the person before you get to know them much more then maybe meet sometimes . what do you think all guys ?

You are actually and basically honest with that and i agree with you about the picture as it definately says abit about the person before you get to know them much more then maybe meet sometimes . what do you think all guys ?

I meet girls

I’ve tried to upload but not allowing me me

Totally agree! 

Agree

Very much agree!

I love pics...posting and viewing alike!

Privacy. Security. Insecurity. Some don't believe they're Brad & Angelina, lol. Good communication is essential. Isn't the brain the biggest & most sensitive erogenous zone?

I agree

Look at my pics let me know what you think

You have some absolute  stunning writing skills, I think you should consider  becoming  an author 

vagina

We all like different stuff and that is one of the beauty's of life. There is someone horny out there for all of us.

Yeah ur pics are really attractive... 

How about a piercing?!

Agreed!

I think you should display what you want others to know about you... to show who you are.  If your photos don't connect with someone, then it should mean that you as a person wouldn't connect with them.  Personally, I think the edgy shots should be kept private and shared only when requested.

Ys yu are correct. But few cpls and singles who are tastefull can appreciate it. Otherwise most of cpl ask for cock size and stamina first then they choose and then proceed forward.  Cpls donot want to initiate for new comer who may be good in size and stamina. But not getting priority over old friends and some referances. 

Ys yu are correct. But few cpls and singles who are tastefull can appreciate it. Otherwise most of cpl ask for cock size and stamina first then they choose and then proceed forward.  Cpls donot want to initiate for new comer who may be good in size and stamina. But not getting priority over old friends and some referances.