Verify or not verified ???

Someone always has to be first and that might be the proverbial early bird you're watching as you sit on the fence!

As with most goods and services, a recommendation or unsolicited testimonial from a trusted friend,is usually the best way to achieve satisfaction,img src="imagesadultemoticons003.gif"

Chat with the person for a while before a meet, ask questions, even if they seem a little personal.
There is no point rushing into a bad encounter.
Also, i find that blog responses are always a good indicator of a persons character, people tend to be a little less restrained with their statements here.

Hi folks
What I meant by this blog is, I'm amazed that some people on here have been verified but not actual met anyone x

I think reviews have also been widely covered by other blogs. What is an appropriate source? What kind of reviews are you impressed with? What do reviews mean? Who can write reviews? etc.

I think it all comes down to what you think are good reviews. I have heard many people saying they don't like when someone has got too many reviews of sexual encounters. Others, I don't like people with reviews just from socials. Others want reviews about bed skills, etc.

I would assume that the reviews you get from people who have not met you would be because they have seen you on cam, they have extensively interact with you and know you and who feel strong about letting other people know you can trust the person is genuine.

Therefore, it is up to you to decide but the guidelines do not stop them because in a way they r a different testimony.

Also amazed that people have been verified on here and actual not even been on cam or chatted on the phone, but been verified because they have chatted to them in the chat rooms ?.
Cam(not to my taste), social advents, means they are who they are x
But in a chat room, they can be some one total different x

I am a skeptic not a cynic; curious but cautious,
The reviews from others are pointless unless the identity of the reviewer can be varified as true.
Instinct, gut feeling and as lilli states, 'homework' are really the only good answers.
Unfortunately sociapaths tend to be drawn to sites like this like flies round ****.
They can also be very charismatic, history has proven this time and again......
Be cautious, be curious and only trust those that have earned it.
But i can vouch for all the guys that have responded so far, they are thoroughly nice people and all round good eggs.

Verifications can simply be...."i have seen this personcouple on cam and they are are what they claim to be." As a woman, many assume I'm a man in disguise. Verifcations show that I am not.

Personally, I don't care about veri's......if they've met lots, I don't consider it a commendation. More of a "I'm that much more likely to catch a disease" thing.

How many times some one has been verified does not bother me, the more the merrier, when you get about 5 or more people all commenting about one single or cpl, and all saying how great they were( regardless if there was sex or no sex) you kind of pick up a good vibe, but this is the point I'm making which I agree with, erotic goddess, mrs valiant, lillieg and also welcumdistraction it's to easy to verify xxx and its amazing what you can find whilst having a bath img src="imagesadultemoticons002.gif"

Trust no one
Believe nothing

Caveat emptor!

I am with happy6580 on this. Guest book entries prove nothing more than that people have chatted or met socially and found them ok. There is only one way to find out if you wil
l get on with someone and that is to maybe chat first then meet in a safe, non-sexual situation and judge for yourself. It's like "real life" you won't know for certain until you know them well.

Agree with happy and most comments on this subject, and also you bmale, always be safe, and you can never judge a book by its cover, sometimes you just have to grab the bull by its horns and do it, but I do believe you should only be verified if you have met that person x good comments, thank you all x

Agree with happy and most comments on this subject, and also you bmale, always be safe, and you can never judge a book by its cover, sometimes you just have to grab the bull by its horns and do it, but I do believe you should only be verified if you have met that person x good comments, thank you all x

I would agree with everything that Happy says,except I can't read it ! Whenever we encounter each other our specs steam up !

I think the site should be far stricter with the types of so-called verifications that are allowed to remain on people's profiles. I know the site issues guidelines, but these are being flouted brazenly. If a person has several entries saying something like "Bloody hell, you are sexy girl" or "Gee I'd luv to meet up and give you a good shag", then to the uninitiated those profiles are "verified", when in fact they are nothing of the sort. Although such pseudo-verifications can be zapped by the profile owner, many choose to retain them, presumably through the rationale that any form of verification is better than none, and will increase your "street cred" even just a little :-)

The other side of the coin is that some perfectly genuine people prefer not to have verifications. I have met several really nice women, but they didn't want me to verify them because they were attached. (Presumably the rationale being that - even if they were rumbled by their partners - at least they could still claim that even though they had "erred out of desperation or curiosity", they'd never actually met anyone :-)

As I am primarily looking for "socio-sexual" meets, I would only regard those types of verifications to be valid and informative. A woman might have a lovely character and have 35 glowing reports about how she behaved at a single social, but to me that is not particularly helpful. I guess it's all down to what we are looking for as individuals here. I have met two male bloggers and enjoyed their company, but neither myself nor they expected to get a verification out of it because that would just have been ridiculous.

If you want to extrapolate that further, I suppose you could argue that we're all sitting on high stools behind the thick velvet curtains of our profiles, frantically twiddling knobs and dials to create the public images we want for ourselves :-)

Indeed; for that surely, is the very essence of the human persona at both the conscious and sub-conscious levels. I might, however, leave the 'fanatical twiddling of knobs' to those more disposed to obsessive, manic proclivities! ;-)

MrChick: For some reason you seem to have been fairied, which makes my response somewhat redundant. If it's any consolation, at least one person saw your post :-)

Hang on to your 'Tangibles' Lillie, before the Fairy takes a shine to them!

Hang on to your 'Tangibles' Lillie, before the Fairy takes a shine to them!

Hi folks, still seeing people getting verified throughout chatting 

the answer is to have a cup of tea in a café..