Here is one reason why this website exists

New to the site, wondering if the site has a bunch of fake profiles vs real ones to get guys to spend money,

Didn't mean to upset anyone, just curious.. I'm new here and I'm looking for some discrete fun is all.

Ok.. I will give it an update.. i don't want to get too detailed on there, but i will add some things. You can also email me if you would like.

ok.. going to update it now :)

I would suggest a no response is a thanks but no thanks....
Take the hint and move on!

Can I just say in all fairness the one thing that people really need to take into account is patience a lot of people on here wether male or female are here for all sorts of reasons.. A quick shag or to meet new people like minded or not.. To make friends.. Find a fuckbuddy.. A drinking partner.. A life long companion.. You never know anyone here could be that person, it just takes time... I maybe young.. But even I know Rome wasn't built in a day and you aren't going to make an account pay to message people and find someone to have your way with or whatever in the space of an hour and even if you did you are lucky or unlucky (go for a check up) I've been on this site and another where I have paid for both when I think to myself it isn't worth it.. But it's worth a try I never know unless I try might meet some great people for whatever a laugh some fun and to meet great people. After a year just two days ago I received my first actual message a member messaged me saying you have a great profile and great photos. We haven't spoken much but she seems to me like a great woman with a gorgeous personality and the legs to match I must say she does seem real to me.

I completely agree with Indepth, two key components that work well together patience and communication. And be honest it helps most people forget these things and that's where it mostly goes wrong.. If you send someone a message and they don't reply oh well you took the risk knowing you may or may not get a reply in the first place.. Try messaging someone else you have nothing to lose.. You may end up getting one. x

I also agree, as girl looking for some sexy times and fun, most of the time there are requests to meet, but the guys are from far away like another country, and then if do contact the guy al he wants is pictures or TV Chat.
As soon some seem interested they ask questions about my private life in the past. I am in China and I do travel in China. Guys say lets meet in Shanghai, I go, contact them and then no reply.. Nice, hope it all changes soon.

Now now lostman,
Play nice! img src="imagesadultemoticons012.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons017.gif"

I'm surprised that these days people are still falling for these types of scams, but then I'm even more surprised (or perhaps not) with the general thought that all ladies are here and motivated by the same thing.

Get real will ye!! Just because you send a message doesn't mean the recipient will automatically want to drop her pants!

Now I'm just cross...

Hey guys, I'm not trying to disrespect anybody. For those who are offended by my writing, I find that as my truth. Thanks for putting your opinions into the post. Appreciate it. "Everything is new everyday."

Thanks for replying to my blog. I sure hope I can find time to write more.

Reading all the comments here. Id say everyone has got their points... some women would message you first,like your profile then when you reply them,they vanish. As much as some men here are fake and rude in manner of approach, so are the women also.
Plus this is an adult site for SEX. Whoever that is on here if only they would be honest with themselves would know they joined this site for either SEX or something to do with SEX. So if anyone approaches you saying fancy a shag. You might aswell answer either simply YESNO. If yes, then im sure while your arranging to meet you would find out a few things for your own safety. If NO you move on to the next one.. this a SEX site. Not a DATING site some people confuse themselves. If YOu looking for love and the likes of it you can go on dating site. For sex then yeah.. you fancy a shag?

What! This is a sex site?!
I'm only here to swap recipes for the perfect sponge mix.

Lol.. yeah true.. longterm relationship..nsa.. recipe for sponge mix..all boils down to sexual intercourse.. its still sex related which ever way you want to put it.. and i dont have a problem people not replying my messages cause its not everyones message i have replied to. Either ways i wish everyone luck in whatever it is that has brought them here. Adios people.. x

"... recipe for sponge mix..all boils down to sexual intercourse."
Errm ... how so?

A lovely lady in the chat room also gave me a recipe for Fanta Chicken sometime ago. That was definitely not a sex-related conversation - at least as far as I was concerned. Oo-er, perhaps I've missed something :-)

Puts a whole new light on thw W.I. & their filthy Victoria Sponges!

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Sponge cake recipes and sex, bugger me i have heard it all now!!!
But then it depends what you use to cream the butter and sugar,
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It's those in-growing hairs. Exfoliate and keep the blades sharp guys!

... and on the subject of cake; pineapple upside down.
Hahahah the possibilities are endless :-)

Yeah as usual, yet another blog is sputtering towards a series of one-line exchanges about foodstuffs, so I'm sending in the cavalry, having seen SueChris' smoke signal.......

I thought Deborose's comment about blokes trying for the unattainable had some truth to it. OK, for a weedy geek I may have levels of expectation well above those I "deserve", but I know what kind of response I'd get if I "applied" to a 20-something with Page 3 attributes :-) I think a lot of men could save themselves a lot of angst if they simply thought carefully about the type of woman with whom compatibility would seem more likely. That means they have to have a pretty realistic idea of their own attributestalents, but sadly many are overcome by sheer lust and bravado when stumbling on a site such as this, and they don't think logically.

I do appreciate the fact that women here are vastly over-subscribed, so I never feel hard done by if a PM is not answered. In such cases, I never follow up. If *I* were female I don't think I'd feel sufficiently altruistic to spend all hours of the day religiously answering all mails from poor deprived blokes, no matter how apparently "deserving" :-) Having said that.....I think a small minority of women on sites such as this (and I've encountered them elsewhere too) appear to be here simply because they have an axe to grind with men in general. Sometimes the politest and most well-meaning of mails can be answered with - not silence - but with spite and venom for no apparent reason. Perhaps such women have been victims of men in some way, and are using the site as a channel for catharsis and revenge. It *does* happen, and I've experienced it, although I must admit some of my blog activity has not won me friends :-)

Lol funny..but Some people dont seem to get my point.
Fine you could have gotten receipes off the site from someone. But are you trying to say thats the mainfirst reason you came unto this site? To get receipes. Lol. People still cant be honest with themselves. What were you searching for when you stumbled on this site? Definitely not how to bake cakes and sponges.
So if you all would be honest its sex or something to do with that brought us all here in d First place..img src="imagesadultemoticons008.gif" . Anything else is secondary