Hi,
I wonder if I'm not the only one that actually wishes to meet people for more than a quick fumble between the sheets or indeed a "happy ending" through dirty talk on the chatroom. I've lost count the number of times that I've chatted with someone on this website and all they've cared about is seeing photos of me or getting me to make them ejaculate through chatting.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not a prude, I love sex, I love making people shoot their loads and having nice photos to share, but I also like to have a rapport with someone besides sex.
I hate when chatting to someone that they want to just go straight to sex and even if I do oblige them, it's me doing the chatting as they are no doubt masturbating in their chair/bed/floor/dungeon and are unable to type. It's just boring and does nothing for me.
So what I'm trying to say is folks, just try getting to know someone when chatting with them, ask about their life, what they've been up to, what they will be doing, try to be yourself, be funny if you can be. A good conversation with someone like minded really adds to the rapport between two people and I'm far more likely to go physical with someone who stimulates me mentally as well as physically. It's not a person's genitals matters, it's what kind of person that is attached to those genitals is more important. I've been in relationships with physically attractive partners, but boring as phuq between the ears and it doesn't work.
So to all would be admirers - if I have/ever get any, if you can satisfy that organ in my head first, then I'm all yours!
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6:56 pm Saturday, 4th July, 2015
Unfortunately Jenn, it goes with the territory. Many will not bother to read fully what you have written. Try putting "key" word in your profile blog about three quarters though and ask that anyone who replies must quote it. You will still get replies but can quickly discard those who obviously not read it through. Keep trying, good luck. |
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7:19 pm Saturday, 4th July, 2015
Hi,
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8:30 am Sunday, 5th July, 2015
Hi Jenn. I smiled when reading your post as it reminded me of a recent interaction with a couple. All of the communication was about my genitalia, its vital statistics and wanting several different photos of it in various states. In the end I realised that I as a person was of no consequence to them, it was all about a few hundred grammes of flesh. I found this a bit depressing and a complete turn off. Like you, I love sex and in quite a few different ways, but not at the expense of the denial of my personality. |
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4:44 pm Friday, 10th July, 2015
I need a nightt or more in a shared bed. That is what it's about. Sex is so shallow when it's a fumble in a car-never done it-w ell maybe when i was16!!!
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