No two women are the same

Although I've not had any meetings on here, I totally agree with you.

I've had encounters with a number of ladies and couples and they have all been interested in different things. I like to find out what they are looking for before we start, ideally before reaching the bedroom. For example, one lady might want a nice relaxing massage, oral and gentle sex, another wants to be "used and abused" with heavy bondage, and rough sex or anywhere in between. I've met a couple of ladies who didn't want cum near their face, one because of a bad experience, the other because her face and lips would swell up if she had it in her mouth or on her face.

I look at it that I am being given a great opportunity if invited to have fun with a lady so it's what she wants to do that is what we will do (as long as I also like particular activities or willing to try them)

Also by finding out about likes and dislikes before the meet (and any possible things to try), it means that everyone is aware of what might take place and also what will definitely not happen, and everyone can relax more.

You are on the right road if you have come to the realization that no two women are alike.T hey are fascinating creatures and each and every one of them is unique.Bearing that in mind and taking earlier advice on here, make time to get to know them as individuals.I would suggest that,perhaps your initial enquiries should not necessarily be sex-related but more about their general interests etc. Most people appreciite being appreciated as a person ( providing your interest is sincere) You may then more easily in due time, discover those aspects of sex which they have a preference for. Good luck.
ps. By the way,I can't for the life of me, see the need to tell this fellow Pearson what your likes and dislikes are.I would submit, it's none of his business. Ha Ha.

Then would that not be on the night of the meet
Check list
1.dont play with nipples
2. Kisses
3. Don't stick cock straight in there mouth
4. Foreplay
Is this not then taking the fun away ?

But then to go with the flow ?

no two women are the same ... I think that can be said for men as well or for a meet. I always find it a bit difficult when people ask me 'oh what do you like?' because it really depends on a lot of factors.

Personally I prefer to go with the flow and have a chat with who I am meeting first. I think if you plan too far ahead or make a check list then things get pretty boring or you'll end up disappointed. What you do really depends on the situation you are in and how things go.

No two people are the same because they have different experiences. I would go as far as to say no two situations are the same. There are times when you want to take things slow, tease, indulge in loads of foreplay, have sex all night and then there are moments where you just want to bend each other over the kitchen table, slip those panties to the side and have a quick 5 minute knee trembler before dinner without even getting undressed.

There are people who like it rough and who like to indulge in a bit of alternative lifestyle, but that doesn't mean that they want to be tied up, gagged, spanked and fucked in all holes by the local rugby team every single time.

Also keep in mind that a lot of women won't be upfront with what they actually like, because they are shy or because they genuinely don't know. I've met with women who were categorically against anal and adamant that nothing would go up that way because of bad experiences in the past but who played for a bit and tried again in a relaxed atmosphere and who ended up loving it. Or women who said they had never squirted only for them to gush all over the bed once someone showed them what to do and what to look for when they were about to cum.

Every body is different and doesn't work like a checklist with boxes to be ticked. As soon as people get that in their head the world is going to be a much more interesting sexy place :D

SS Squirting is peeing? Really? I can tell you from first hand experience that that is NOT the case. Unless of course that was a joke :)

sensual self not sure where you get those facts about peeing during sex from, because that is complete news to me.

I read the french study of 7 (seven, wow highly scientific) women as well, but that is hardly proof.

Anyway lets not shatter the lovely squirting fantasy some of us have

It would be interesting to find out, how many men think because one woman enjoyed what they did to them, that they thought wow I'm doing that to every woman ? And were disappointed as it never had the same effect ?. And this is not a man versus woman blog it is what it is, about swinging do men take what turned one person on, to there next meet ?

Absolutely agree..no two women are the same..isnt it wonderful...lol..always a learning curve!

Communication...chemistry..connection

My keywords

Communication tick, chemistry tick, connection tick, but it's not until you get in the bedroom and you think bugger :(

SensualSelf, should the kit kats be 2 finger, 4 finger or chunky ones? I have a stash of chunky kit kats :-)

Im dieting....cease the choccie chat..grins

Chuckles SS

Just reading through this and have come to the conclusion must men sometimes just write an answer thinking its what women want to see, just to try and score brownie points. Just be honest x