Had anal sex twice with 2 different men years ago. It's so painful and still not use to it. Can anyone guide me
6:01 pm Monday, 30th March, 2015
Lube, Lube and more Lube, when you think you have enough use a tad more (so i've been told) ;-) x |
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6:05 pm Monday, 30th March, 2015
I've tried that...but it's so painful. .. |
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6:12 pm Monday, 30th March, 2015
I do want to enjoy. It's just the initial penetration that is so painful. I wish I had 2 men making use of both holes at the same time. |
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6:34 pm Monday, 30th March, 2015
you should be the jockey hun take it as you want to then |
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6:50 pm Monday, 30th March, 2015
I'll be the jockey when I'm totally enjoying it without pain |
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7:09 pm Monday, 30th March, 2015
You sound like you are not relaxed enough.
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7:14 pm Monday, 30th March, 2015
I find it best to be on top at first aswell, so you can control entry. Then move onto other positions when you are ready.
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8:17 pm Monday, 30th March, 2015
Apart from lube, a position to try is on your side. As it reduces tension on the angus. All the other advise is sound little at a time and slow. If you really want to go for it, a vibrator will cause the muscles to be more relaxed , and enters at a speed you can totally control. Try it alone and get used to it. |
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10:50 pm Monday, 30th March, 2015
You should have a look at a well know book from Tristan Taormino (an American feminist and sex educator), "The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women". It's funny and interesting. You can find it everywhere including Amazon |
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10:54 pm Monday, 30th March, 2015
I've found an anal toy works well too, one that's flexible and ribbed in increasing sizes. Plenty of lube and PATIENCE, especially from the guy. Ease it back and forth as little as you are comfortable with and only try the next stage when you're completely relaxed. Combine this process with your other sex. And with each stage more lube on the way in. Moving it around gently will help spread the lube and make it smoother.
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12:36 am Tuesday, 31st March, 2015
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7:37 am Tuesday, 31st March, 2015
Have you tried using a vibe on your own, start with a finger size and work up , always use lots of lube. Then get your lover to start with a vibe before sliding his cock inside. Xxxx
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10:45 am Tuesday, 31st March, 2015
If it is painful then there is no point really because it is going to put you off each time the word anal is mentioned. And even if you have someone who is more experienced and takes their time with you you are not going to enjoy it because all you can think about is past experiences.
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12:26 pm Tuesday, 31st March, 2015
Like I say you be the jockey hun,take what you want that way |