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First Social Event...Help !!

10:53 pm Wednesday, 25th March, 2015

This Blog is my first..my virginity blog broken !!

I'm going to my first social in July in Birmingham..I'm excited about meeting folk I've talked to on here..going alone..which dosent phase me..I'm big enough and ugly enough to hold my own in most social events..once went on holiday to Amsterdam alone..cant remember much...although I was on first name terms with the staff at pizza place near hotel..spent much time with the munchies there..winks

Are these socials well attended? Am I risking being sat at the bar snorting peanuts and boring the bar staff with my 'back in the day' stories ..
What I'm trying to ask are people friendly?
Will I have to penetrate cliques? What is a social events etiquette?



Comments
2:56 am Thursday, 26th March, 2015

No idea either :( but I am sure you will have a great time! And the force may be with you!! img src="imagesadultemoticons001.gif"

6:04 am Thursday, 26th March, 2015

With your great,out-going personality I'm in no doubt that you'll have a good time and engage with many of the very nice people on here. ( bees round a honeypot comes to mind ).
There is no doubt that you can hold your own and I fully expect you will find yourself holding someone elses too !
Have a great evening and who knows ? I may be over int he UK at that time so we can both overcome our shyness ! Ha Ha !img src="imagesadultemoticons014.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons016.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons030.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons008.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons028.gif"

6:33 am Thursday, 26th March, 2015

Heavens Mr Fetch...I'm going to socialise not throw my knickers in the air in lusty abandon...grins...you get yourself over here ..or I might have to jump a plane over thereimg src="imagesadultemoticons012.gif"

6:35 am Thursday, 26th March, 2015

FFP ...Force Be With Me..hell lady...do I need to take a light saber?...winks..I thought they were supplied..ha ha!!

Thankyou x

6:39 am Thursday, 26th March, 2015

Graham I'm really looking forwards to meeting Sassy and Throbs...shame youre not going...I couldve helped with your choccie stash x

11:32 am Thursday, 26th March, 2015


Sassy ..chuclkles...your comments made me laugh!

Thankyou so much for your phone number...look forwards to communicating with you xx

11:33 am Thursday, 26th March, 2015

Alex get yourself there !!

12:45 pm Thursday, 26th March, 2015

well its on the july events board ..so party people come on down and have a laff with drinks fancy dress if u brave ツ with the normal c heesiness of reflex club yum yum ☺

12:58 pm Thursday, 26th March, 2015

Throbs..fancy dress...really ?..my fave !!

12:59 pm Thursday, 26th March, 2015

Alex I'm sure theres going to be peanuts..get yourself there !!

1:01 pm Thursday, 26th March, 2015


Brigette..come !!!

1:45 pm Thursday, 26th March, 2015

Glad we are not the only ones worrying about this...img src="imagesadultemoticons026.gif"

5:33 pm Thursday, 26th March, 2015

Oh my goodness me Never Grovel Sassy, just use your charm, wit and beauty as i for one know you have an abundance of those qualities :-) x

3:45 am Friday, 27th March, 2015

OK. Dixy you will be happy to know that I will be in the UK at that time and I am trying my best to make it to this Social. Now 90% sure and I am looking forward to meet as many people as possible and definitely danceeeeeeeeeeee!!!

I hope many people come here. Newbies like me. I am going to be so nervous too. Should I wear a dress? OK now I am already going shopping lol

7:28 am Friday, 27th March, 2015


FFP...I'm delighted...happy wiggle...sooo hope you can make the social...wear what you want to..ooohhh shopping...always good!!
Happy Friday Sweetheart!
See you in the dance floor !!

6:38 pm Friday, 27th March, 2015

Keisha keep being nice to hubbie lol..Id be dancing a dizzy merangue if you decide to come...totally understand your apprehension...and shyness...however please know that everyone attending the social are going for just that..to socialise..(oh some to errmm bump uglies lol)..like minded fun genuine people..cheesy music...salted peanuts..alcohol ..what more could you want?
Thankyou for the compliments xx

4:46 pm Saturday, 28th March, 2015


is there a dress code at The Reflex?

5:46 pm Saturday, 28th March, 2015

I'm not wearing a dress....

6:00 pm Saturday, 28th March, 2015

Meant to write * knocking other peoples blogs off

6:01 pm Saturday, 28th March, 2015

Sorry Dixy!! But had to be said just sorry it was on your blog xx

6:11 pm Saturday, 28th March, 2015

Have to as BBuk has a point Keisha, but glad to see BB showed some manners by posting an apology to Dixy for doings so on her blog.

7:15 pm Saturday, 28th March, 2015

As long as it's one without all the bickering Sensualself i'm open to any social that doesn't involve that!! :-) x

7:26 pm Saturday, 28th March, 2015

Who said theyd be bickering at the social in Birmingham?..theres been a bicker on a blog..it happens..get over it..nothing will spill over at the social ..its about meeting people and having fun

7:35 pm Saturday, 28th March, 2015

Wow Dixy think you will find thing were calming down!!!!

But i for one don't take kindly to being told to shut up by someone that i don't know never mind have see around on the site in the last three and a half years since i joined this site. Which may i add i've never had a cross word with anyone during that time as i always bear in mind that i'm a lady first and foremost!!!!

Have fun at the social as it's a night i won't attend as i don't deal with hasselgrief of any sort!!!!

7:37 pm Saturday, 28th March, 2015

Ooops things were calming down

8:15 pm Saturday, 28th March, 2015

Think you will find i posted early on in the blog. But as someone already stated freedom of speech is a given in this country Brigitte. If some would stop sticking their wooden spoon in and stirring thigs the blogs would settle down and become a calm place once more. So cheers for your input but doesn't help matter truth be told only serves to fan the flames in my opinion. I for one don't like seeing others gang up against one member and singling them out. In my opinion that is plain old bullying at it's worst.
Will say the problem started for a cretain member trying to dig up another member for a valid opinion that they posted.

As i said, enjoy the Social.!!!

8:37 pm Saturday, 28th March, 2015

Alas i think if you ask anyone i'm amof the most friendly people your likely to come across, but i don't like bullying of any sort and that is what the attack on BBuk looks like......Here endeth the lesson :-) x

8:42 pm Saturday, 28th March, 2015

Ooopps I'm one of

9:04 pm Saturday, 28th March, 2015

Take care all make sure to dance the night away. Have a wee dram of two for me, might join you for the next one as i'm off to sun for my holidays on this occasion. Woohoo two weeks soaking in the sun, all tequila and sombrero's.
Have a good one all :-) x

9:21 pm Saturday, 28th March, 2015

lol kudos to you Brigitte i stand corrected :-) x Enjoy!

9:26 pm Saturday, 28th March, 2015

Oh and SHhhh i don't know where my bloomin glasses are half the time though normally find them a half hour later perched on the top of my head where i left the blasted things lolol :-) x

11:07 am Sunday, 29th March, 2015

As my old pops used to say "when you grow up, you need to understand that sometimes silence (saying nothing) is more powerful than making an arse out of yourself and trying to have the last word."

12:38 pm Sunday, 29th March, 2015

It most certainly is Brigitte and a fine one at that.

7:24 am Monday, 30th March, 2015

Toying with the idea of flying over to Birmingham International and ruining everyone's evening !

9:44 am Monday, 30th March, 2015


LillieG..such a shame youre unable to make it..I'd love to meet you...as for shocking us...darling bring it on..grins xx

9:47 am Monday, 30th March, 2015


Fetch ..ruining our evening ? Heavens! what do you have in mind?..chuckles...

9:53 am Monday, 30th March, 2015


Pleased this blog is back on track....without blood shed...oh the dramas !! Keep to the cease fire!!

I'm booking for the Friday and Saturday night...can anyone recommend a hairdressers nearby?

Also what is the dress code ? Ie are jeans allowed?

Sassy when are you arriving in Birmingham?

6:04 pm Monday, 30th March, 2015

That did make me giggle Psavour lol :-) x

12:57 pm Tuesday, 31st March, 2015



Is it wrong of me to want to see Sassy in her santa dress?

1:00 pm Tuesday, 31st March, 2015


Sassy ..itd be good if we can do drinks Friday..if not defintely up for Saturday avvie drinks n eats ...n shopping? Lol

Throbs confirmed jeans are allowed..and sent me a number of hairdressers

Will be in touch ..thankyou xx

10:47 pm Wednesday, 1st April, 2015


Pics ..yayyyyy!!!

Fantastic Sassy...looling forwards muchly

In chat room last night lots on interest..friendly chat n banter about it and several definites...all good x

12:15 pm Saturday, 4th April, 2015

Where and when is Birmingham meet I lije to attend if possible do u have to pay lol no not for that can some 1 put details on here plz

1:41 pm Saturday, 4th April, 2015

Details for the Birmingham meet please anybody

1:51 pm Saturday, 4th April, 2015

Details for the Birmingham meet please anybody

2:34 pm Saturday, 4th April, 2015

Sassy1234 I would like to thank you for the information about July meet just booked holiday for meet I appreciate your help very much hope to c u all there I be the shy 1 in corner lol so looking forward to it now I wont be a meet virgin mo mire lol thanks COLIN

3:01 pm Saturday, 4th April, 2015

Details for the Birmingham meet please anybody

3:01 pm Saturday, 4th April, 2015

Details for the Birmingham meet please anybody

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