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WOULD YOU EVER CONSIDER AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP?

3:21 pm Tuesday, 10th March, 2015

My honest answer to this question would be YES, because I always consider all the possibilities in life. However, would it suit that relationship? That is indeed to be seen. Would I be fine knowing he touches and kisses another woman? I can't imagine it to be honest.

I come from a strict family. I recall being sent to parties with my brother, just to make sure he would be next to me scaring anyone who would like to approach me or being picked up by my parents even before the party re****ance with the Prince like Cinderella.

I was brought up with many taboos and definitely the idea of an open relationship would have not even been considered in my family, not even the thought of it. I confess it was me not a long while ago.

Now, I do respect couples here who have got an open relationship. I would even dare to say that I admire them because they both agree on allowing a third party to get into their lifes (even if not for long).

However, I always wonder how they got to agree on this kind of arragement ?and why? In my head, I can't picture the exact moment when one of them would suddenly said:



Comments
3:22 pm Tuesday, 10th March, 2015

BTW, I am so sorry I had to erase the previous one I posted but it was incomplete and I could not edit it.

Sue and Chris: Please, please post again. I am so sorry.

3:58 pm Tuesday, 10th March, 2015

Yes would and a fabulous to do and have a open relationship

4:55 am Wednesday, 11th March, 2015

SueChris, I always get ur vibes through your replies of being an amazing happy couple. I hope u find another couple where u live now if that is what u want.

Lilly, It makes sense but to you the most becuase it follows what you need. img src="imagesadultemoticons013.gif"

Big, why do u think it wud be fabulous?

9:34 am Wednesday, 11th March, 2015

This is a good question, but one I have no experience in. I have never been in a relationship, so this is purely theoretical. However given my ethics and history, I would have to say I wouldn't do well in an open relationship; I am far too insecure. That being said, I believe that open relationships can work and they have been proven to work throughout history. Being single I am interested in meeting a couple in an open relationship, not just to have sex with a married woman but to give the couple something that satisfies them both. To me it is just as important that the man enjoys the experience as the woman if that makes sense.

7:33 pm Thursday, 12th March, 2015

yes wy not ive had one 4 10 years now and its well good the wife cum home and tell me every thing she has got up to and it a well tern on it get me well randy she like me wen im like a mad man raming my cock up er all night and she get well randy to the best sex ever ad as she is well randy wen she as just ad a good fucking and cum home to get more she fuck all night long the est thing we ever dun gailnyfiojim

1:58 am Friday, 13th March, 2015

Mr Admirer: I think it is a nice way to think that by satisfying a need, you also give happiness to a couple.

Gail: I would interested in knowing how or at what point you decided this is what you wanted to have with your partner?

8:57 am Friday, 13th March, 2015

Open relationship is all about being comfortable in your relationship , we as a couple have no jealously or issues related to having a night with others and it really feels liberating to let you partner have some fun with others or playing with others ..

11:07 pm Friday, 13th March, 2015

This young lady Free, is giving some very thought provoking questions..............respect.

2:00 am Saturday, 14th March, 2015

I find that a strange question from a single lady, but it does make you think ...why?????. in our relationship everything was perfect , sex life was good, orgasms were frequent, and we had fun. then she had an affair and I thought life had ended...why?? things were good.
they weren't.
we had stopped listening to each other , me in particular . that does not excuse her behaviour but it goes someways to explain it and how it happened. We now talk about our relationship.
in my opinion a 3rd or 4th party can excite a relationship in the way that a sex toy can , fun and friviliant, as long as it is what both partners want and desire, but it must be together , if not then (imho) you want sex outwith a partnership then that relationship is no more than a friendship with benefits, even if you have permission.
we now seek a female to indulge both our fantasies but are open to the right couple if we both feel it is right ,
BTW it was many years ago the affair, and we are now secure in our relationship, but half the fun still comes from the imagination, and the age old question, "what would you do to himher" , and if that photo is genuine "freeforpleasure", the answer is many, many naughty things. lolimg src="imagesadultemoticons008.gif"

7:40 am Saturday, 14th March, 2015

Frisky and MissG: Thanks for your honest replies. The more I think about it, I believe I could not, but at the same time it seems to me that it is based on so many factors like a very strong relationship where trust is everything and total confidence that he or she would not change me or leave me no matter what img src="imagesadultemoticons026.gif"

7:42 am Saturday, 14th March, 2015

Phil: Thanks for your honest answer and telling us about your story. I am glad it is all working well for you too. I always enjoy the happy endings img src="imagesadultemoticons001.gif" About my picture, well, it is me and so thanks for the non subtle compliment...lol

1:33 am Wednesday, 18th March, 2015

I don’t consider couple exchange or swinging as an “open relation” , but rather a relation where each has the right and permit to have sex with somebody else without hiding or feeling guilty .

It is better to discuss the possibility of an open relation at the beginning of a relation rather than later when one or both partners may be in love or have strong feelings for the other . It is important to define “the rules of the game” in advance such as : do we tell each other in advance or only after , if we tell at all to what level of details do we go , is there a limit of how many per weekmonth , etc .

If the two partners are mature both sexually and intellectually and they are capable of overcoming jealousy , an open relation can be good for both BUT ( and this is a big BUT ) there could be 3 major problems : 1- we find a sex partner better ( and maybe even nicer) than the current one , 2- A one night stand becomes another open relation running in parallel to the existing one , 3- Only one of the partners have sex with others while the one that doesn’t seats at home alone thinking about what the other may be doing at that moment .

Not easy ☺

9:36 pm Thursday, 19th March, 2015

Free for, I'd consider any type of relationship!!!!! Open, half open, or even just slightly ajar if it meant a genuine relationship! Oh dear, do I sound needy? Titter. img src="imagesadultemoticons026.gif"

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