i will travel and meet members who have been contacted.but i join this site because i want to have fun ,DO NOT WANT TO swop 20 plus messages and still not meet.that said i do meet up and will meet up prior to fun if you want.so can the time wasters stop it and the 30 day plus club go away/also the couples who turn out to be single men not contact me.all this said if you want to meet up i am here for just that reason and will be happy to replie to your messages .hope to have fun soon