Where do i start, well married 19 yrs been with my wife for 21 im 45 she 49 and we live in Lincolnshire. Me and my wife are not strangers to pushing the boundaries been ex swingers. Yes we done it three some, four some, orgies you know the score.
I was always proud of my other half oozing sexuality and she remains my hotty still to this day. In our bedroom alone, we have also tried to be varied too with our personal sex lives with attempts at Dom/Sub. she been keen to try to be tied up and dominated (Like most women fifty shades of grey had some influence), having no toys that suit the game it came down to using my ties and the bed frame. She has gagged on my manhood kneeling in front of me, been taken in her ample sexy ass and been flogged with my home made flogger among a myriad of other activities
The problem is you see a line has now drawn in the sand with me and my D which i will go on to explain in a min but the one thing we have and still do is the ability to have a frank chats about our feelings and desires. Well during such a chat, all of a sudden a seismic shift in what we both want has risen from the depths, ive noticed of late that she has cooled in exploration settling now for just a good hard fuck every now and again, Me well im still on my journey to find how far i can still go.
Lets put this into context fro you, My D has done it all had a good party teen years been abroad done loads of different guys and generally had a hedonistic lifestyle, me well a quiet controlled teen years (Strict Ole man) and girlfriends you could count on one hand, i was unsuccessfully married for 2 yrs by the time i was 21 with sex none existent, god knows how i ended up there lol. then i met D, she had a confidence issue with her fluctuating weight and i was shy and lacked confidence, but damn when we got together it was like a hardcore porn movie every time we got together. Needless to say she is my godess and we have grown together every year,
The thing is i have an insatationable appetite for the weird and wonderful and kinks have been an area that has always excited me, D bless her has tried to accommodate my obsession but has finally admitted she is not keen despite having some great nights trying out. What makes her a great woman is during our line in the sand chat, she realizes that i would like to pursue my kinks (Although to many on here would think them to be mainstream) and has given me permission to pursue them under what she says is my bucket list. I have always put everyone first and always will but she says i need to do my stuff.
So here i am with thanks to a kink friend of my D. Now im not expecting big things but if i meet just one person who gives me experience it will be worth it. Funny thing is im a bit scared about all this but then again excited at the same time. The more i get into the scene the more you learn, at least like my D says that when life comes to an end for us both we have had a bloody good rummage in Pandoras Box and not regretted a thing
