Walking In My Shoes..............

Joe: Like you, I'm quite happy with the trickle of interest I receive. Could it be an age thing I wonder (haha....). To be honest, I don't envy women on this site, but there again I'm not female, so perhaps there's an "attention-seeking gene" that I lack :-) Looking forward to seeing the responses :-)

"So do you want to try walking in my shoes? ".
Well, that all depends on whether or not you wear a size 6 Kurt Geiger heel.


I never get cross with pms in the chat room. Yes, I know it's a pain at times, but I don't visit that often so I don't see the point in getting upset about it. Jeez, it would be a bit flippin' weird if you went to a party and nobody chatted to you until you gave them permission first.
Wouldn't that be a bit 'standoffish'?

As I see it, I have three choices: I can return the pm and start a conversation; I can say no thanks or I can just delete it from the screen. If it gets out of hand, I can use the ignore button. Easy!
It would help if the pop up pm window wasn't over the chat on the main board though.

I've pmd guys without asking first and never had a complaint. Is it one rule for guys and another for girls?

Skebbie - Agreed! Not sure what I'd do if I got tons of messages anyway. I'm more than happy with any attention and very happy with the amount I have at the moment.

MissG - It depends on your definition of snowed under? 3 messages would approximately take me quarter of the year at my current rate so 3 in 1 day would be like a heavy blizzard!!! And quality will always be far more important than quantity :-)

Luv2 - Sorry they're size 10 DM's... Not saying there is different rules for the sexes but would you miss it if you didn't receive any? And if those you did pm refused most of the time?

Like I said in the last paragraph please don't get too serious. I'm not complaining at all just wondering which is the better of the 2 scenarios?

I used to get quite a lot of mails but to be honest i think that was because i decided to add a few pics, but thank goodness that mail frenzy has calmed down now, other than the odd one or two most of my mails are now from people i have built up some form of "friendship".

As for the chat room PMs......they can be a pain when you first enter chat but they soon calm down and i just say no thanks as i doin't do PM chat Mwahaha ( i only PM with a very select few)

Would i miss PM requests....NOPE. Would i miss Messeges, only if it was one's from friends that i have built up a somewhat regular correspondence with. As they are quality mails not like the ones you tend to get from random's.

I wouldn't miss them, but it is nice to have a quiet chat now and again. Some things are best not said in public ;-)


I currently have forty five unread messages in my inbox which makes me feel bad. I wish I had time to reply to the polite ones; it's rude not to.
If you're reading this comment and have sent me a nice message that I haven't responded to, please know that I am sincerely sorry. I will get to it eventually :-)
xx

Happy as a sandboy over here thanks Joe!

Quality over quantity anyday.

45??? Bloody hell don't think I've had that many since I started!!!

StarG & Ronald you 2 can change over if you want .... There's a parallel universe just waiting for you!

That seems to be the consensus Riggs...

On a slightly different tone. I am getting site generated e-mails from people wanting to chat to me.

Call me cynical but since I haven't renewed my VIP I am getting the Sanotgen effect. ONe mail a day every day.

I know they are site generated because some of the mails come from accounts where I already occasionaly chat with the person.

But I guess I get at least one mail a day so should be grateful

What I'd like to know is,do these guys who send mis-spelt,ungrammatical,one- line messages such as "fancy a shag ? " or " wanna see my cock ? " have any success ?
Most of the ladies on here seem to me to be erudite,intelligent women and I hope my faith in the fairer sex is justified in that they respond better to someone who is able to express himself in reasonable language.
I'm not saying that the odd cheeky and risque remark goes amiss providing it is delivered with style and good humour,most females seem to enjoy a little harmless smut.
For my part, I shall continue to quote John Keats, Dylan Thomas or Robert Burns as appropriate ( please see above ),and if any Irish friends appear...the great Oscar Wilde,of course.

Ealish I realise that there are more shades than I stated but I can only talk about my experience. What side of the fence is your mailbox closer to? And I might look good in a nice pair of heels but I'm sure I'd fall over and break an ankle before I'd even manage a couple of steps ;-)

Fetch I have often wondered the same thing? I'd imagine they don't but if they didn't you'd think they would give up after the first ten attempt or do they not just get the message?

Star Girl,your point is well-madex xx I shall confine myself to quoting excepts to you from your fellow Scot, the great William McGonagall.After several declamations of " The Great Tay Bridge Disaster " I fully expect you will be porridge ( if not putty ) in my hands xxxxxxx

StarG you do have to wonder about some people who don't get the message? Do you think they really don't get it or are they playing dumb?

Sassy as I said to MissG, 1 or 2 articulate mails would take me at least a whole Season! Would this be acceptable or would there be a tiny bit of you that would miss it?

Ealish the repetition monster just got me as well :-

Joe to think that while some are just plain old dumb but normally even they take the hint. Then you get the odd one or two that are only playing dumb, won't take no as an answer then turn abusive. Jeez i had one that i hit the IGGY button for but then he went onto the main board and was rather abusive.

Yes Ealish they are becoming a rare indeed.

I've never bothered with the chatroom, looks too much like hard work; and if it's overrun with illiterate blokes, what's the point?

doc: Just reset your mail preferences and the prob will stop. I managed to figure that out only recently..... :-)

I'm thinking of taking a course in txt spk and boorishness to see if it enhances my site presence :-) Maybe I should be "more pushy and assertive". (Wait a sec - is that what "doms" are supposed to do? :-)

Skeb, that sounds like a good ideal I'll have a look at that. It seems there's no option to send a preemptive 'I'm miles away, sod off' mail either. ..probably for the best!

Joe, your wearing the wrong aftershave buddy, I'm inundated with mails and pms from women all over the place, they're positively crawling out of the woodwork to get to me! There's not an hour goes by when I don't have some scantily clad, sex crazed female demanding that I allow them to ravishing my body and jump on my bones! Usually they have friends with them and they always want to share!!!!!!!!!!!

"Sorry, eh what? oh yeah time for my medication again, coming nurse!"img src="imagesadultemoticons026.gif"

Are you wearing the aftershave or drinking it MYS? ....

Doktorzook not all of us blokes in chat are iletar...elliter......illitaer.....can't spell!!!!!

Pmsl MsG :-D........ I'm not sure my hairy size 10's would be that attractive and certainly couldn't carry it out with the flair Ealish and yourself achieve !

And you're both martyrs and so generous to vet my pics but the nightmares you'd have after might not be worth it ;-) lol

I don't imagine there would be any shortage of willing volunteers to peep at... err sorry vet your pics Joe lol ;-)

Join the queue SunShine & StarG...




p.s. Its very small.... (The queue).

So how are you going to entertainamuse us while we wait in the queue Joe?;-)

Im sure I've got something that can keep you 2 occupied ;-)



Travel Scrabble?........

Damn and here was me thinking you would say a pack of cards to play a game of snap or poker ;-)

Ok I will agree to a game of "Travel Scrabble" if you return my "Mojo" unharmed. But get the dictionary looked out, oh and i mean the site version as the Cambridge one may not have the colourful words that may come up as we play ;-P

Sometimes you wonder why you bother?..............................