Why Is it so hard to meet people for fun on this site

I'm a newbie, and I've not as yet had a meet-up, so feel free to ignore my advice :-)

But:

1. Add a picture or two to your profile. At least one face (non-cock) shot - I assume you're after women? :-)
2. Get Site Admin verified in the chat rooms. You'll need a webcam - if you don't have one, you're missing out on a big part of this site anyway. They take a look at you, confirm you're a human being and a guy, then mark your profile.
3. Hang around on chat, so that people are familiar with you. I'm not a great conversationalist, but people are starting to remember me.
4. Register a Meet-up.
5. Look at the party list and visit a swing club.

Do all that, and if you still get nothing, you can complain again :-)

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