Tales of a Female Dominant ...

A risky and dare i say it controversial blog Luv2.
While I can sort of see what you're getting at (doesn't appeal to me either) I've got to agree with MissG if you dont like it just ignore it. If it floats your boat good luck to you.
While cheesy Hollywood rope restrained bonk busters maybe getting ready to burst onto our screens and every supermarket shelf groans under the weight of slick black covered porno page turners, please remember its just a genre that has always been there and always will. It will pass when the marketing people find the next cash cow ready for exploiting.

Just remember Zeds dead ......

Ah, but you see I didn't say I don't enjoy reading it; far from it. As a matter of fact, I have spent two days reading many, many wonderful and creative tales written by a very talented on-line friend (you know who you are). Also, you may have noted from my blog above that I read Shades of ... twice and I'm secretly dancing at the thought of a Shades film.

Just because I have enjoyed reading about it, it doesn't mean I have to enjoy the practise of it. Similarly, I've just finished reading Alston's Between a rock and a Hard Place ... I can't see myself rock climbing in Utah any time soon.

You see, for me, that's the beauty about writing for my own amusement and pleasure. I do it for exactly that reason ... my own pleasure and sod what everyone else thinks; I'm certainly not defensive about it. You can't put your writing in a public arena and then be defensive. If my writing happens to evoke feelings of various sorts in others, that's a bonus. Take this blog as an example. It has created wild assumptions about a variety of things brought about by the feelings of anger, defensiveness and disagreement and (for Sassy), disappointment. Sassy, I'll send you Chapter one (lots of stilettos).

Assumptions ... lovely word.

Even though I do read bdsm themed material, it makes me uncomfortable and point was, I personally, can't bring myself to write (for my own pleasure) about a subject that I have no interest in because I don't fully understand it.

So before you arrange for my public execution, let me say that I don't understand how we are fighting against extremes of this in various cultures around the world yet we are fascinated by the Hollywood versions of it.

I've said before that I'm in no position to judge; few of us are, but in my opinion (if I may be so bold as to have one) is what's wrong with a good old fashioned shag without the use of a ball gag, humiliation, torture and me calling him my Master?

Ooo, you're so right Gilli. I love sticky buns, especially fruity Belgian Buns.
Strange thing is, because I love them so much (Mmm all that lovely fruit), one could assume that I also like fruit scones ... I don't! Can't stand the smell of them.

So for me, in this instance, the 'don't knock it 'till you've tried it' theory doesn't work, but that's ok because we all have different tastes and fortunately there are so many other delicious and tempting alternatives available to us.

I hope that doesn't offend all those skilled bakers or lovers of fruit scones out there. That's the advantage of living in the developed world. We have the freedom to make that choice and the ability to express our opinion on the type of cakes we like to eat.

For all the cake lovers out there, I'd like it on record that I also like doughnuts; The ones with the hole, not the jammy ones.

Chocolate Eclair anyone?

Luv2, 'wont ever call some cock with a cock , master'
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I think if you had written a comedic story to take a 'rise' out of it, so to speak, it could have been very good way to express your feelings on the subject and I for one would have enjoyed the readimg src="imagesadultemoticons012.gif"

Frisky, It's 6am and I'm calling for the Gimp and you're nowhere to be found!! Come out, come out wherever you are and accept your punishment. Shyboy's waiting patiently ... he's been sitting in the box for hours and now he's all stiff.

MsGeil, shoes excite me too and yes, I am rather naughty and deserve a quick visit to the naughty step, but I'll have to decline the ball gap I'm afraid. It just won't match my shade of lipstick.

We should all go shoe shopping !!


Sassy and Roger:
I got as far as Chapter 2 in my comedic efforts. After the female dominant role (oops I didn't give her a name), made the manager lay on the floor so she could trap his cock between the heel and the sole of her stiletto while the sales assistant did naughty things to his backside, I decided that enough was enough ... I'm just not creative enough. I lacked the imagination for ways to humiliate and torture him.
If you have any ideas that I should include, please pm me.
Maybe one day I'll finish it; I do hate unfinished work.

Gingered, there were so many other actors that could play that role. No doubt it's going to be a flop ...
Mills and Boon eh? I like Lee Child (Ooo what I wouldn't do to spend a night with Jack Reacher), well, that was until Tom Cruise made the worst film version EVER!


Sensual, Mac and wonderful Wilf, we should have a cake fest. Mac, no mention of bresticle type cakes with cherries otherwise you'll set Wilf of into his nipple zone and that's not pleasant ;-)
Just a thought ... keeping with the blog theme - who'll bring the nipple clamps for the cherries?

BDSM eh?

Not for me - a little light restraint as and when the mood takes meus and maybe a little firm wrist holding. After that its another world.

After having endured "pick up the log" etc etc rather too many times I simply have no interest whatsoever in delivering or enduring anything remotely sadistic.

Right old softie I am.....

Luv2Suc. A scholarly piece of work,may I say.I decline to comment further, having always considered that the areas of shoes and confectionery are the exclusive province of the fairer sex and having been told in the past,that my opinions have no validity,being male.
However in an effort to redress the balance in some way,I am in the draft stage of writing a book for men entitled " Fifty Sheds Of Grey ". Any fellow who has been subject of nagging or having his ear chewed off,will appreciate the value of this Sanctum Sanctorum at the end of the garden !

Fetch, "always considered that the areas of shoes and confectionery are the exclusive province of the fairer sex and having been told in the past, that my opinions have no validity,being male."
... At last, a man who is willing to please and a thespian too. You've inspired me to improve the character (shop manager) in my little story.


50 Sheds sounds like fun. EL James has given us plenty to poke fun at.

Nagging, NAGGING?
We don't nag: We supervise; mentor; guide; inform ... I could go on.

Luv2Suc. ..and being the epitome of all that is the very best in the female sex, I have no doubt that you will go on...and on.....and on !
( but I'm still very fond of you xx )

Pick up logs? Is that some cruel, torturous form of military exercise regime or a euphemism for something entirely different? I'm almost afraid to ask :-)



Ooo, talking of military, that reminds me... Lee Child's Jack Reacher character was destroyed by the movie. As much as I like Tom Cruise films, he's certainly no Jack Reacher. Reacher was an ex mp; tall, rugged, tough, loved the outdoors and knew how to please the ladies.

I now feel bad for declaring my thoughts on him earlier. Bear Grylls would be so upset to hear I would consider taking another to my bed :-)
Decisions, decisions ... Reacher v Grylls (she says weighing up the pros and cons)

Oh sod it ... Perhaps they could both be my sex slaves, just for one blissful evening. What? I'm not greedy, I just know what I like.
Three in a bed with Reacher and Grylls ...

As I am of you Fetch ... Mwah xx

OOoooo Luv2 what a lovely thought
Mmm Reacher and Grylls......
Although i would tend to focus ALL my attention on the rather deliciously tasty MR Grylls both in the "Shed" or in a bed MMmmm

Ok Sunshine, I'm willing to share if you promise to hand him back unharmed and intact.
You'll be taking your life into your own hands infiltrating Fetch's sanctum Santorum to carry out your dirty deeds though.

In the meantime, I'll take Reacher in the bed. Or, should that read: I'll let Reacher take me in the bed?
Either way ... bring it on!

Of course Sensual ... An 'all hands on deck' approach will be so much fun.

I really need to use my spell checker!

You don't have to imagine Frisky; you can come and join us. We know you want to ...

That makes five, so far ;-)

Frisky, fair Pissed myself with the grizzly bear droppings etc! Your a gem!

Am off to Iceland in a week's time with a friend that would make 'Mr Grylls' look like an ice cream sales man! Dark Ex military, mountain climber, ski instructor, cave and survival guy, 'real bad ass stuff' Have an odd feeling that my menu is going to be quite unusual!
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You know what Luv2, it's great to read all these titillating novels (and I have written a few short tales myself) but there is nothing better than sensual sex with someone you are totally in tune with, sure sometimes we both act our fantasies (we decide beforehand what it's to be) but at the end of the day we have a deep understanding of what turns each other on, and sometimes we just snuggle under the duvet - I'm so lucky....still love a ffm 3some though...

Gillibean, with pleasure angel, though I fear it's gonna be sheep's eyes and salted blubber all the way. img src="imagesadultemoticons025.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons025.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons025.gif"

Soo it appears the ladies have a thang for Eton-educated Edward eh??

Girls you might like to use a well-known search engine to look up a much nicer and all together much more interesting and rugged fell by the name of Monty Halls (yes I know it sounds like a made up name but it isn't!!)

Now far be it from me to pimp anyone but if its a proper rugged but thoroughly lovely fella you like then he fits the bill perfectly.

There are others though!!

Frisky, 'restraining with rope methods'. I like the sound of that.
How was it phrased earlier ... ? "A little light restraint and firm wrist holding". Mmm Mmm - Jeez, I'm such a walking contradiction I shock myself some days :-)


MYS, I can't believe you would compare cuddly Edward G to a nice-cream salesman. Deeply wounded here ...


Newme, thank you for stopping by and leaving a comment. I'm with you all the way with your views.
Who doesn't love a snuggle under the duvet?


Sassy, Alex Cross ... sooo would! Hot Hot
Films rarely live up to the book in terms of storyline and characters. Not sure why or how so many film makers who base their films on novels can get their choice of actors so wrong. The recent exceptions that spring to mind are Bradley Copper (Limitless and Dark Fields) and, in mho, Robert Patterson (Twilight). Also think Leonardo in The Great Gatsby is worth a mention too.

Rigger the Pimp? Now added to my favoured terms of endearment list :-)

Nowt wrong with being Eton-educated, especially when you smell of the great outdoors and named after a cuddly toy.
When the asterisk fairies 'do their thaang', I'll google him. I hope he's worthy of being included in my menu of fantasy hotties.

Sassy that should be Pattinson ... Robert Pattinson.
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Bollocks!