how to get more success

How would you define "meet" ?
Do you mean a good shag, or that your date simply turned up at Starbucks for a quick look? :-)

The bottom line is that -if you are male- no matter how horny you think you are (and it's all relative :-), the chances of getting your rocks off are directly correlated with your age and aesthetics. I'm sure you're doing no better or worse than any of your peers :-) Although this site is "helpful", sadly it cannot provide people with an instant and vibrant sex life. You just have to be patient like all the rest and be thankful for small blessings :-)

Succinctly put skebbie, couldn't really improve on that thumbnail description.

Keep at it Discreet, there's an old saying that, 'If you fling enough you know what against a wall some of it will stick!'

Try a paid membership, 'one successful meet, and its worth it!' Post some genuine pics, join the blogging community, and get in the chat rooms, 'Not for me personally.' Be honest, and transparent about what you really want, without boasting, or bragging. Work at it, and you will get results!

Cheers guys thanks for the advice I will stick at it and see what happens, maybe a different approach will see more success.