This question is for all the swinging couples out there.
When you first got together, while dating, did you know you wanted to be a swinger? Did you make a point of discussing the topic in the search for a mate? Or was it something that came a long later in the relationship?
I'm curious because I find myself wanting that lifestyle, but sadly my wife doesn't. I can't help but think about what would have happened if I knew I wanted this when I first met my wife. Would I have married her?
Are there any couples willing to share their story with me? Just curious.
Can't help but also ask if there are couples where one had somehow convinced the other to swing? Perhaps you could help me out. I should say, I would NEVER force my wife into anything she didn't want to do. I have a little feeling she might be a bit into it.
Jimmy
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7:10 am Monday, 21st April, 2014
Anyone? There has to be some with some thoughts on this? |
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8:10 pm Wednesday, 23rd April, 2014
That's what I've been trying to do; explore ideas with her. Thanks for your insight regarding where her thought patterns might be coming from. You gave me something to think about, thanks. Very appreciated. |
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7:08 am Thursday, 24th April, 2014
Well, I finally come out with the idea of getting together with another couple. Enough hinting around the bush, as they say. Well it turns out that she might be interested, but she is concerned about her body. Of course I tried to reassure her of her sexiness; that just led to some really hot sex. So there might be some hope yet. |
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4:06 am Friday, 23rd May, 2014
She does know but I feel she is uncomfortable with it as she seems to change the subject when I try to talk. I've left it alone for awhile now, but I need to talk again with her again. The only thought I can get from her regarding swinging, is that she is uncomfortable with her body and is shy. I don't know how to deal with her body image problem other than reassure her sexiness. |
