I recently missed an opportunity to meet up with a very attractive guy and perhaps his wife also. A little impatience and a bit of jealousy I think.
This was my first contact on any site. I became very excited by the talk of meeting and what we wanted to do to each other. But during all of this I realized that I needed to come out to my wife and hopefully get her permission. Turns out my wife disapproved, ya I know, big surprise.
So, after telling my new online friend that I couldn't hook up, things turned a little funny. We started to become online friends; I've never had someone to talk to about the feelings I have towards men before. I loved it. It was so liberating to talk about such things to someone real.
Now for the funny part. His wife; who was apparently on board with his lifestyle, sent me an email basically suggested that I wasn't honest and that I should either fuck her husband or stop emailing. After I came to terms with the fact that I was actually having a conversation with some guys wife about fucking him, I kinda lost my cool a bit and tried to prove my honesty and how sincere I was. I think I failed.
I think what hurts most about all this is that someone thought I was dishonest and misleading.
I'm not sure what you should take from this..... I guess what you will.
I'm interested in comments. Judgemental or not. Where did I go wrong? Besides not committing to going through with a hook when it felt right.
One good thing out of this experience was that I came out to my wife as bi. Best thing I could have ever done.
Jimmy.
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5:17 pm Saturday, 19th April, 2014
Wingit: thanks for your words. They do mean a lot to me. Thanks for everyones words.
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7:49 pm Saturday, 19th April, 2014
LUDO Jimmy |
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9:36 pm Saturday, 19th April, 2014
Lishy- thanks but I really have no idea what rigger said to me. I had to google ludo and I still don't think I understand. Lol |
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9:40 pm Saturday, 19th April, 2014
MissGoodNight- exactly what I was thinking. I have learned from the experience.... I now try to keep it a little less personal; If that's at all possible. Lol |
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9:42 pm Saturday, 19th April, 2014
Jimmy, a long time ago I realised that one of the best 'freedoms' is not giving a feck what others think of you. What's important is what you think of you and you. |
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11:48 am Sunday, 20th April, 2014
I always enjoyed a good, long game of Snakes and ladders. ;-) |
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11:49 am Sunday, 20th April, 2014
Frustration was good too. |
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1:31 pm Sunday, 20th April, 2014
I always enjoyed The Game Of Life, Hmm of to have a look to see if its still in the cupboard as i too am VERY frustrated :-( |
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1:52 pm Sunday, 20th April, 2014
Thanks MacBloke, I get it now! So far I think I'm loosing the game. ;) |
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4:56 pm Sunday, 20th April, 2014
Snakes and Ladders is probably my favourite ... any excuse to go down on the snake ;-) |
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4:57 pm Sunday, 20th April, 2014
Ah, that was an example of of one of those moments where I've pressed send before I had time to think about it. |
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6:33 am Monday, 21st April, 2014
Luv2Suc. Have you ever tried "Strip Chess" ? Not only is it very cerebral but finishes with a mating. xxx |
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6:38 am Monday, 21st April, 2014
Strip chess takes too long! Have you ever watch pro chess? The have clocks!! :)
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