(the angry mood is im angry with myself......)
Ok so I joined the site in January and was soon chatting away on in the various rooms....
so what does it take to make friends here.... I guess with me honestly! I am way to open for my own good and will quite often say what I think..... you love me or hate me for it!
I see lots of people come and go in the rooms and wonder why?
is it because they didn't get the quick fix they was hoping for.......
because they didn't fit in?
well to me everyone has the chance to fit in...
be honest (if your a couple don't lie both of u are there)
if u are in a difficult relationship ..... let people know...
the ones that are polite and friendly are the ones that are getting the meets u crave... the good meets with the good people...
it also helps to have a pic... even if not a face one.... and more details on your profile.... it takes a few mins to write and is a starting point of what can be a very difficult start of a conversation............
me... im too open for my own good... I care too much..... is it a good or a bad thing I wonder sometimes as u end up caring for these people on screen u have made friends with.... and is that good or bad? or is my heart of gold going to be taken?
ttfn FQ
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10:25 am Thursday, 11th September, 2014
Confidence is a really big issue. It maybe took a long time to actually join, then again to join the hot tub. Sometimes nothing is happening and all you see is 'hellos' Other times it is moving so fast its impossible to follow even a single thread, leave alone the multi-threaded web of conversations. Fq is correct in saying you have to be at least moderately open and always honest. Take the plunge and there is usually at least one soul who will guide you, Bearing ones soul is not a prerequisite, but often kindred spirits will help you through issues, turn you on, make you laugh. Go for it. |
