A tease or something more?

I've not had many responses to my approaches, that could say more about me than the women on here. Those that have responded have been nice to chat to. I do suspect there are a lot of women window shopping, there seem to be a few only interested in big cocks and then there are those that are looking for other women. I'm not judging, each to their own bit when you take all of the above into account together with the fact that there are possibly 5 times more guys on here than women (not a fact just an observation from going on the chat rooms) then that leaves not that many available women for the guys to try and entice. Frustrating at times but something we have to live with so no point getting arsy about it!

Totally agree Gerry, I 've had rejections but all have been totally polite. If you don't tick the box then move on. Likewise not all the women tick my box, but either way it doesn't cost anything to be curteous.

I've been called a tease a lot because I do like to chat and talk to almost anyone who is respectful. Then I've been called a tease who talks the talk but won't walk the walk because I don't meet with everyone.

Yes, I've met quite a few times, and have to say quite honestly that most don't lead to more. That doesn't make me a tease, it means I know what I like and am not going to jump into bed with someone just because he thinks I should.

I am a flirt, and don't say I'm not.

Anyone who says to me what they've said to you ("no offence but ladies don't join sites like this" and "most of the women on here were just after ego massage and not looking to meet. They just wanted the attention.") get the ignore button.

I've met some amazing men here. Not all are losers, and the same with women.

It seems a shame that experience has left some feeling bitter and disillusioned, but why take it so seriously. Do your homework on who you're communicating with and lighten up is my advice.

I'd also like to add:

Firstly, read my profile .. It's honest and a pretty good reflection of the type of girl I am. If you don't understand it or choose not to read it, tough; that's your problem, not mine.

Secondly, understand this ... I'm a fussy bitch and hard work most of the time, but I DON'T play hard to get when I'm attracted to someone. If I choose to take that any further it's my business and don't need permission or any sort of public announcement to advertise the fact.

And another thing ... I'm every bit a lady thank you very much. I'm still very much a lady, even when I choose not to act like one.

So there!!

I wonder when folk will twig that notwithstanding this is a swinger site folks are here for a million reasons. Not only that but different individuals respond in different ways.

I use to advise folks like the chap mentioned at the start of this blog to have a go at Plan B.

Bet you want to know what Plan B is now don't you???

Yep

It's just a big game with different players playing with their own rules to their own end. Some people just can't see that! Guess that's their problem!

Re luv2's comment. I was always taught to treat ALL females as ladies -- until proven otherwise,but then give them the benefit of doubt.Most will appreciate that.

You are a gentleman Brinton x

Rigger makes a good point (which I've probably touched on before) in saying that people use sites like this for a myriad reasons. In the "old days" when the primary purpose was to "get laid", things were less confusing. But now such sites provide a massive forum through which people can get their jollies in whatever form they choose, whether it be exhibitionism, voyeurism, ego-massaging, or teasing. I think it's fair to say that people who seriously want to get laid are now in a minority.

So the watchword is "let the buyer beware". Rather than moaning about time-wasters and teasers, you could almost say that they've as much right to be here as anyone else. You just have to learn to recognize them, and avoid them if their jollies don't correspond to yours.

Totally agree. Spend time talking and convincing your not a mass murderer to receive usual excuses as to why they can’t meet