A lesson in love ......

Trashier the better I say :p

You would, Cheekyfooker :-)

Mac, "I'm just a simple guy."

You're one of the lucky ones; simple folk live in a world of love and peace.

and luv2handu just doesn't have the same ring as luv2sucu does it :p

I'd hate to be cut, friends tell me you do get a lot less sensitive as time goes by when cut.. I've tried to leave my skin pulled back when dressed to see what it feels like, but it's far too sensitive to keep it skinned back, I could hardly walk.

As for the handjobs.. almost anything you do will feel great! I guess the main thing is not to be scared of the thing, lol. Slow and teasing at first.. you'll know when he wants more.. He should make it pretty obvious. Then you choose.. do you keerp it teasingly slow and just TOOOO gentle.. or grab it in a tight fist and wank like you are angry with it :)

If you ARE going to finish him off.. wait until he's nearly begging to cum.. then grab the thing harder than you feel comfortable with.. and pump the Hell out of it.. main thing is not to stop for anything. So try not to stop for a rest.. and if you have to change hands, try to keep the rhythm going, lol.

And like you, we're VERY sensitive (usually) just after climax.. so if you're sure he's empty.. don't torture him by pumping hard for too long !!

I guess it's more or less the same treatment you like us to give to you isn't it?
Soft start, harder finish.. gentler kisses and licks as you come down... mmmmm..

God, I'll never get to sleep now..

Ps, nice to have you back x

Thanks, Luv2---this topic just had to be covered, glad you did.

Oh my!!
I never did intend for this blog to be about circumcised (or not) willies, although for the record, I do like talking about willies. I kind of expected this blog to be about being open and learning together, hence the title 'lessons in love'.

Oh well that's why I love reading the blogs so much and in the stylie of Forest Gump, they're like a box of chocolates; you just never know what you're going to get.




By the way ... some very interesting comments :-)

EG, I'm seeing the unexpected turn of this blog topic as payback for all the comments guys have made over the years about the size and shape of girlie bits and pieces.

Battle of the sexes ... bring it on ! (well, not really - I'm too much of a wimp).

Comeso, "I'm sure almost every man could tell a tale along similar lines about learning to give cunnilingus."


Oh dear, we don't want to encourage that. Blimey, you'll have everyone thinking this is a sex site.
Now, back to that box of chocolates :-)

you sharing them chocolates luv2 ?

Woooohoooo Luv2's back with a dissertation on handjobs!! She must want some shelves putting up.

Well here's the thing. I started life with a foreskin, but kinda grew out of it so I think I can speak for both sides of the house when I say that, at least in my experience a bad handjob is a very very rare event.

On a serious note (stop laughing at the back) I think I would like to learn a little more about digital stimulation relating to pleasuring ladies though.

Reflection during the holiday season has caused me to conclude that I may have relied to much on my evil stunted-foreskinned twin and too little on what else the good lord (or the bad fairy) gave me.

So should any fine wench feel the need to offer one to one (or even better 2 to 1) tuition I would be grateful. Alternatively (and returning to the theme of this blog) some tips would be most welcome.

Oh and regarding handjobs I commend swarfega to the house. Dirty, and yet clean at the same time. What's not to love?

Rigger, I've got no shelves to put up, but I could always nip to the DIY shop to buy some.

"Even better two to one tuition". Greedy!

;-)

hmmmm my last comment deleted , fair enough

I think the gist of the opinions expressed here is that pleasuring oneself or one's partner is an skill acquired through experience. Being a Virgo or a Sagittarius does not automatically make one a "great kisser", or for that matter "a great handjob queen" :-)

It's tempting to bend this thread in the direction of the pros and cons of being circumcised, but it's a sensitive (no pun intended) matter, and those who are cut or uncut will naturally defend their position vociferously, and it's one of those arguments that can easily get ugly. Similarly to the pubes debate, the converted will not listen to a counter-argument.

Rather than the mechanics of sex with cut and uncut penises, I'm actually more interested in the culture of circumcision, for example why the vast majority of American men are cut. Why should have this come about? Another fascinating titbit is that the vast majority of South Korean men are circumcised, in contrast to their largely uncut neighbours, the Japanese. Apparently this wasn't always the case, and the present situation only dates as far back as the Korean War, when the country was awash with American GIs. Draw you own conclusions. Sexual memes, fashions and fads seem to wash back and forth like the tides. It'll be interesting to see whether over the next hundred years or so there'll be a gradual reversal of attitudes in the US favoring retention of the foreskin. I think "the natural uncut" brigade are becoming more vocal, but old beliefs die hard, and some actually have an image of uncut men being riddled with hideous filth and viruses (lol), which doesn't help.

Finally, I suggest you google the term "frenular delta". I think you'll find it illuminating :-)

"Frenula Delta" Interesting.
Wow ... and they even gave the cute little thing a name. Just googled it; I've now got so many questions and so little time (running late this morning). Will ask later.

One thing is for sure - it's not there just so I can rub my tongue piercing on it (as if ... ).

Inspection reveals that notwithstanding my stunted status my Frenula Delta (are we sure that shouldn't be Fred Dibnah?) remains intact.

For the record a chap definitely does not want that caught in his zip. Once done - never forgotten.

No need to get shelves Luv2 - we will manage without them...........

"frenular" being the adjectival form, of course :-)

For what it's worth:
I'm not trying to start a war or anything (no, really....), but in recent years us uncut blokes (including Dixon) have been finding themselves under attack for various reasons, both medical and aesthetic.

The tide of fashion from the US that drives many of the world's memes and trends would have us believe that we are unworthy and pox-ridden. So much so, that I suspect a not inconsiderable proportion of British blokes now hesitate before "outing" themselves as being uncut (which is the cultural norm for UK and Europe). Some may feel so strongly about this that they feel compelled to get the snip (and I don't mean a vasectomy).

As I said above, I'm not prepared to debate the pros and cons for fear of death threats, but I'm sure some readers will acknowledge what I'm on about.

Skebbie, ..."The tide of fashion ..."

I've never thought of willies being subject to fashion trends. Thought provoking ... ;-)

Going back to my previous comment, I can't bring myself to ask the many questions I now have regarding your suggestion to look up FDs. Questions, questions, questions ... I have to reign myself in sometimes.



Wilf, long time no see x

MsG, floozie

BBW, so true. Quiet ones are always the worst.

Luv2: Bald pubic areas, breast implants, massive tattoo overkill, the concept of cut penises being more hygienic and aesthetic.......

I would argue that much of this fashion has been generated from US-style porn over the last couple of decades. Am I mistaken?

I once met a lady who seemed to be very keen on me coming in her ear. At least I think that's what it was - every time I got to the moment juste she would pull me out of her mouth and turn away sharply.

Anyway just to say (and for the avoidance of doubt) I have never ever been tempted to follow any fashion regarding intimate body parts, although I have not been immune in other areas. There came a point in the 1980s when it finally dawned on me that the straggly porn star moustache (it was a bit of a trade mark amongst many like minded chaps - and we are not talking the Village People type chaps here) should finally be consigned to the dustbin of history.

Reading others comments I am minded to add to my rich store of guidance on this sort of thing (collectively known as Riggers Laws). I think that the additional intimacy of oral contact makes fellatio particularly special. The addition will therefore be along the lines of "a second class blowjob beats a first class handjob anytime"

That said I would think that if I were welding then a handjob might be the better option.

Rigger: Well I've heard about people having their ears syringed, but this is definitely a new variation. The rich pageant of life is indeed a source of continuing fascination :-)

Going back to Skebbie's earlier comment about Frenula Delta. My OCD will not let question upon question float around in my head without putting me at risk of serious brain malfunction or human combustion.

Firstly, why one earth was it named Frenula Delta? Perhaps it was:

DELTA
A. After the fourth letter of the Greek alphabet
B. Fourth letter being a triangular symbol
C. After the land that forms at the mouth of a river and empties into the ocean
D. A stock market term relating to the changing price ratio of assets
E. Some or all of the above

FRENULA
Isn't that part of an insect wing that is used to aid flight? Maybe I've got this wrong as this area of biology was never a strong point.


Just wondering what other bits and pieces of the human anatomy have been given some curious names. Something else for me to think about :-)

As for circumcision being subject to the fashion influence of western porn ... I'd like to have it on record that I don't regularly watch porn, but when I have, I have never, EVER thought of checking to see if the guy is circumcised or not.

Note to self: next time I watch porn, check to see if the lil'ol Frenula Delta thingy is there.


Seriously though, I could perhaps see how western porn has influenced (in part) the whole pube, breast size and collegen lips debate ..... but foreskins!! FFS, surely not!

Are there any guys reading this blog who have had (or thought of having) a circumcision for reasons other than medical? You don't have to leave a comment if you don't want to - just press 'like' on this comment if you prefer.

Looks like this blog has morphed into comparative notes on worst sex injuries while I was trying to find my missing post!

Nope.

I cannot see any occasion when, before during or after watching porn I say to myself oo that reminds me I must get booked in to have someone have at my chopper with a - er - chopper..

Then again others may differ. There's nowt so queer as folk.

So true Rigger. It takes all kinds to make a world and diversity is essential.

Peace, love, tolerance and an understanding of all types of willies :-)

're-introduced'

Nooooooo!

Gilli - just snorted a mouthful of wine laughing at that one.


Unwanted or obsolete ones could even be put up for auction by their owners (or owner's wife or girlfriend) on eBay.

Pork Scratchings .... ?

Where's Gilli gone?

Oh dear, maybe I imagined Gilli telling us her recycling ideas that could save the planet. Too much wine! Will I ever learn?




Joe, "pork scratchings". That's nasty ;-)

Gilli has been eaten by the blog monster again . Think she must have a season ticket to the naughty step!

And Luv2 please dont ever learn that you can have too much wine.

Could dry them out for dog chews?

For Luv2 and other amateur anatomists :-)

A frenulum (plural frenula; adjectival form frenular) is a small fold of tissue that anchors or restricts the motion of a mobile structure. Probably the best known frenulum is the one under the tongue that anchors it to the floor of the mouth. "Tongue-tie" is a condition where the frenulum anchors the tongue to excess, which may create a speech impediment or restrict tongue protrusion or movement. Such cases can easily be treated by surgery. Similarly, some guys have foreskins that are excessively restricted by the frenulum under the glans of the penis, which makes it difficult to expose the glans. For such guys, *partial* circumcision or frenuloplasty is recommended.

Women have frenula too: two of them ! One is the frenulum just under the clit where the two inner labia meet, and the other is where the inner labia meet at the bottom, on the anal side. The latter can be torn of injured in childbirth, or even if a woman is penetrated by a very thick cock, or during rough sex. However, this will heal in most cases.

A "delta" is indeed a triangular shape or structure, named after the Greek form of the letter "D". Probably the most well known delta is that of the Nile, which from space appears green and lush against the surrounding desert. I always liken it to the "pubic hair of Isis" :-)

In the case of the frenular delta of the penis, it is now known that this represents a delta-shaped bunch of sensory nerves that spread out across the underside of the glans from the frenulum. These nerves are considered to be responsible for a large proportion of the sensation and pleasure a man experiences during sex or masturbation. This is a relatively recent concept in anatomy, and has prompted interest in the possible consequences of circumcision, i.e. that in cases where circumcision becomes necessary for medical reasons, more care should be taken to preserve as much of the frenular delta as possible.

To give some credence to your description Skebbie, I think someone needs to survey members and report back.
Maybe a close inspection of Frenula (plural), on cam, in the chatroom.

Gilli and I are probably best placed to do this in order to ensure results are as objective as possible. It's a tough call, but someone has to do it. ;-)

We'll set a date and send out invitations.

I'll just make sure the naughty step is clean and ready for Gilli & Luv2 so they can enjoy the show...

If we are going to have short arm inspections (you can all google that one too....) then please can it be done in person. I am not sure that I have the dexterity or the moral courage to waggle the evil twin at my webcammy thing whilst operating the laptop controlskeyboard, maintaining composure whilst at attention, keeping a straight face and scoping the performance of the other contenders...

I do like the idea of some FD (there's always space in my life for another abbreviation) getting some tongue stud attention though. Any volunteers?

Luv2: What is the objective of your research survey? If it's to prove that women have the aforementioned frenula, you'll merely be covering the tracks of anatomists laid down over the last few hundred years. Unless, of course, you're trying to *compare* frenula to see if any have been torn or injured lately (ooh what a giveaway :-)

Incidentally, as you are an equestrian person, you might be interested to know that "frenulum" means "little bridle" (Latin diminutive form of "frenum").

Anyway, good luck with that one. Can I recommend an endoscope rather than a standard webcam? It'll probably give clearer images :-)

Joe. Can you also make sure there are some tissues and a tube of Swarfega on the naughty step. Hmm ... Not sure if it comes in a rude or a tub. Rigger might help with that one.



Rigger, "Please can it be done in person?"
I'm with you on that one, but I can't promise I'll be able to contain myself If I find that 'special' one that takes my fancy.


Skebbie, "What is the objective of your research survey?"
I'm surprised you had to ask. Unadulterated, naughty entertainment of course.

Tut ... rude should read tube. FFS!

Luv2 I'll get a barrel load just to be on the safe side ........

Well I'm glad I seem to have triggered some group activity. Radio me back about your discoveries, won't you ? :-)

What? You don't want to take part? Mwhahahaha

Not at the moment....I've got a date in an hour or two..... :-)

Yet another brilliant blog Luv2 and not at all trashy. Quite erotic in fact. It's great to have you back from Florida. How was it? I sent a message to that E-Mail address you never check lol.
Speaking personally I am not circumcised but the "foreskin back and forth" approach would never work for me. If I have an erection and my foreskin is drawn back my glanis swells so much you'll never pull the foreskin back into place. It constricts the blood supply and my penis just swells more!
Hugs, Ian xx

The way is to pull forward first and then back circumcised or not. I am a crossdresser and when women are wanking me while I'm dressed are far more gentle but somehow treat me more rough when I'm in Ian mode. Strange but true........I'm staying in my naughty knickers stockings and heels then! But wait.....a Mistress once spanked me on my cock and I loved it! xxx

Skebbie, hope good time was had ;-)

FOM, "... and not at all trashy"
Can't say I agree with you on that one, but what the heck.


Ingrid, "Cock spanking." Just choked on my cornflakes. I may well give that one a try some day.
:-)

Luv2: I have several semi-regulars over here, and we haven't seen each other since last Nov, as I was in UK for most of Dec. So at the moment I'm busy saying Happy New Year of the Horse :-) And as you know, it's always good to catch up with friends :-)

ealish: Is this tongue in cheek or genuine? :-) First ever record of an oral virgin, to my knowledge :-)

Gilli, yes. A dozen willing, partially naked, willy swinging volunteers.

Can't imagine where you could find them Luv2 ...........

Is that the sound of a stampede I hear?????

I am looking forward to popping into my engineering supplies depot and asking for a rude of swarfega.

The uninitiated need to take care. Like marmite a little swarfega goes a long way, so a 2kg tub will be more than enough.

I wonder what constitutes special? I have enjoyed that status in other areas, so maybe anything is possible.

Mac "Don't just leave me hanging ..."
That should really read "Don't leave Mac swinging."
We could be open to bribes by the way.


Rigger, you need let me know what sort of 'special status' you have previously enjoyed :)


Gilli, we should be clear about this: We will always be in charge of the willies ;-)

Did anyone mention swinging willies?

Ok! Now here's the "THING" all those cut and uncut willies can still be aroused to sheer pleasure! By using the "ROSY PALM TECHNIC" and this is to all the guys giving it ago! And to all the ladies out there just longing to drive there man insane with pleasure! If anyone is familiar with the rosy palm technic then they will know all to well..... If not then you can google THE ROSY PALM TECHNIC to see for yourself!
I do enjoy the rosy palm technic due to the sheer intensity and pleasure you can acheive from this!!! And challenge any guy or ladies using this technic to finish to completion if done properly? Its all to do with more slower than speed!!!
And ladies if you do this properly you will have your man in sheer ecstasy and begging you to stop!!! So there you have it ladies now you know how to take that penis in hand cut or uncut and most of all have fun!!!
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Gilli- I wont ask what you have been upto.....

Or have you been applying the rosy palm technic??

Gilli I'll get my coat and running shoes. I think a few hundred volunteers may bave got a head start ....

Swing low sweet Gilli & Luv2 .......

Gilli I'll get my coat and running shoes. I think a few hundred volunteers may bave got a head start ....

Swing low sweet Gilli & Luv2 .......

Joe "I'll get my coat and running shoes."
Don't bother, you won't need them. :-)

Rosy Palm

That has to be a porn name.....

RIGGER

Just trust me on this one! Go ahead and google rosy palms technic and see for yourself!

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