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What's up with couples wanting endless chat

6:57 pm Tuesday, 12th November, 2013

What is it with so many couples wanting to have meetings and become friends before getting down to bedroom antics? Most of the swingers I know think it is a physical thing and no more, but I keep having couples want to have a coffee and endless meetings to become friends prior to hooking up!!! Thoughts?



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8:30 pm Tuesday, 12th November, 2013

Don't want to be firends or anything, but we would insist on meeting you 1st....
A) to check you hadn't either lied about who you were, or sent us a pic 20 years old or even of someone else.
B) to make sure we turn each other on in person, nothing would be worse than getting into bed and finding you a total turn off

5:02 am Wednesday, 13th November, 2013

I totally understand that - it makes total sense. What I don't get is those who want to meet many many times and hang out and become friends and then take it to the bed weeks or months later. I have met many like that on this website - I do not get it. The best times I have had was when we have chatted first, met and engaged a little and then decided it was a go and then hit the bed. But still there are some on the site who seem to be looking for friends rather than swinging partners - and for me that is a turn off… we are not interested in being friends and hanging out with a swinging couple - acquaintances yes - friends in our professional real life - no way.

2:45 pm Saturday, 25th January, 2014

That's exactly what I meant

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