This post is about the ups and downs of online dating/sex dating.
I am going to start with the positives. I have met some great people and am enjoying texting and emailing a few others that I have not met yet. I have had some great playtime since joining this site so overall very glad I joined and continue to pay membership each month.
I have made some great friends and I hope to continue seeing them. I hope to meet a few more people soon that had been promising to meet. You know who you are lol
Now to the bad
There are still a few things that are very annoying. I am still getting the scammers and fakers.
A couple of months ago I was talking to a seemingly nice girl. We had been chatting for a few weeks and she sent me pictures and she was really hot. We agreed to meet and then she sent me a hotel booking confirmation saying she had booked a hotel and would I send her my half. I thought it was a bit dodgy but I looked up the hotel and the email confirmation seemed legit so I sent the half for the room and dinner. Then on the day of the booking she turns around and says the payment didn't work and would I send the money to cover her half. I was so disappointed as it was obviously a scam. People just make me so mad sometimes.
Recently I have been getting messages from single girls with their email addresses straight away, then proceeded to get spam emails. Som bullshit about being a refugee from Africa and needing help or some business deal or something.
So if you are a real woman that really wants to meet me, please don't send me your email address straight away as I won't respond. Just chat with me normally on the site and one we trust each other then email or phone numbers can be given.
This is the reason I like couples. Men and slightly older women talk straight to you, they are transparent and trustworthy, no games or flirts, you just talk normally. With young girls t is a lot harder, firstly the games and flirts that you don't always know how serious they are about actually meeting, then the ones that just try to get you to sign up to sites, then the scammers that try to get money off you etc. Just wish it was as easy to find single women to play with as it is to find men or couples but after 3 months of talking to people and a lot of bullshit I still haven't met a single girl/woman off this site.
But I can't complain. I have met some really nice guys and couples off the internet so maybe I will just keep my single girl meets to normal life.
I have been wanting to go to isis in leeds but haven't had the time or money to go yet. I finally will be able to go in a few weeks time so hopefully I can make some new sex buddies there instead. No idea why I never thought of looking up sex clubs whilst I was at uni in leeds. Instead of getting down about not meeting someone in regular clubs I could have been meeting more sexually open people at isis. I guess I always thought swingers clubs were for couples, or expensive. Turns out any singles go and it doesn't actually cost much at all.
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9:21 pm Thursday, 31st October, 2013
Yeah that is a good idea. Luckily I haven't had too many scammers and most of them have been obvious. I don't mind some time wasters as long as there are at least some genuine people on the site, which they are gladly. Some other sites I have only had time wasters so don't bother with them. I guess some sites are better at filtering out bad eggs. |
