I was with a girl and we were together for 2 and a half years. Quite early in the relationship there was a conversation prompted by her mate getting a new boyfriend who is bi, and she said she couldn't go out with a bi guy because "it would be eww". I died a little inside because I really loved this girl. If you've read my profile you'd know I have no romantic interest in men. But this means that I have technically cheated on my girlfriends... all 2 of them. I dress it up with excuses like "it's not like I'm having an affair", "I would never cheat with another woman" and "it's not her fault that she can't satisfy these particular sexual urges"; but I still can't help but feel guilty. Knowing the one you love may never know the 100% real you is just one problem with being closet.
If you know me, warning: there's pics you'd rather not see... just sayin' :-)