Let's normalize blowjobs on the first date

Now now....before you go flaming me and dragging me, hear me out:

You reluctantly upgraded your membership so that you can respond back to the innocent flirtations you received from that handsome guy who was bold enough to put his pictures up. You've spent quite some time getting all dressed up to present yourself as lovely and attractively as you can. He picks you up and he's surprisingly just like his pictures. "This can go well" you think to yourself.

Rather than the exact same boring routine of past dates, this one feels different. It's creative and engaging and you find yourself talking back and forth without any weirdness or awkwardness. You are both relaxed. There is clearly chemistry here.

Towards the end of the date it's apparent you are both into each other, but we don't want to rush things right? Let's not go getting crazy and sleeping with each other on the first date for a multitude of reasons. But......a blowjob, that's different. It gives you the opportunity to see that other side of both of your personalities without jumping in with both feet.

You get to strip down to your intimates and show him how you skipped no details in preparation. You get to see how he handles being in control and if it's a good connection. You get the intimacy. You get to submit and show how much you want to be a good girl. You get the aftercare afterwards. And you end the evening with no regrets, no wondering, no questions left unanswered.

#LetsMakeBlowJobsGreatAgain

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