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If members or visitors don't read profiles, what is the likelihood that they will read a blog?  But it may be worth a try.  The title is not exactly a quote from Kermit the Frog, but the idea follows.  Thousands of men and not so many women are on most of these sites. There are lots of photos of well hung men, or at least their sex organ, and lots of profiles of women who say that's what they want?  But there seldom seems to be an indication that either is/were successful.  Communication is hard here.  I put info in my profile 'newjim44'  saying I can't read ' at' messages and I had some 'proton no space male' stacking up in the mailbox with no way to respond. That's because I have no credit card that can be used for subscription (long story).


On the other hand, or rather side of the coin, there are the thousands of us who are average, yet competent at providing pleasure.  How does this group get noticed in a 'forest of tall hardwoods'?  And how does this group successfully get it's message to the women/couples who would appreciate the pleasure and adventure the average size can provide?  


Once in a sex club (Thad's in San Diego, seems like a lifetime ago), I asked the  question of an average lady (not one of the two hot women who were there).  Her answer was, 'Just be yourself.'  That may work in an interpersonal situation, but the cyber world does not give the opportunity for interpersonal relationship building.   After a  short while of visiting with her, her average husband (yes, we were all naked) led her off with a big dick person he just met.


So that's the question.  The best answers are probably from women.  But the few who are here are unlikely to read this, and less likely to provide a thoughtful answer.  Let's see what happens.

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