Let’s Unbox her and Make her Yours

“It’s the responsibility of every men to help and support every women unbox and unleash her full personality and and go beyond conventional limits” This saying is so true in Indian context although India increasingly becoming open. However if you look at numbers - still a huge majority of Indian girles/wife don’t express themselves fully due to fear of male dominated societal judgment yet at times we male love to see our women show her full personality without inhibitions. She needs our full support - let her shine and enjoy her life fully - don’t suppress . By design women are multi colour being and we men (husband , boy friend etc)should create safe and conducive environment to bring out her every possible colour . I truly feel my wife has many thing suppressed due to her earlier  conditioning although I try my best to support so she can express herself without caring about anything. I think we men exist to give care and pleasure to women without any expectation. However by-product we men hopefully get lot of love and pleasure from women eventually but it’s a patience game that’s where we men miss the bus. As husband I can say I won’t mind if my wife hang around with sensible guys as long as she is safe and enjoys the time - I don’t care and don’t put my nose . She is grown up and let her take her own decisions and explore things wildly . Just be there as guard-rails , that’s it . Believe me Most of Indian wives are unexplored territory- they themselves are not fully aware and confident what they want and how - that’s where the role of sensible men comes in. Gradually take them on this journey of exploring step by step with care and love - hand holding , giving confidence in every step. Long term always win over short term . Tickle her sensation , onboard her to new ideas and adore and appreciate her ! Let’s her be the Center - am sure she would reciprocate with lot of love and pleasure to we men. Let her fly and don’t try to control her. I know my wife loves me - but that does not mean she can’t hang around with sensible good vibe guys , who she feel safe and comfortable with. I don’t mind if her close friend call me and say hey bro I want to take your wife out for dinner and will be back after sometime . It’s always proud when guys genuinely appreciate your wife and she feels confident and excited. Let her break out barriers and be brave and bold - believe we men will gonna benefit a lot . Don’t do character assassination of women. Don’t label them. Trying and exploring is human nature. and he said what if some close friends wants to stay at my home when am traveling for work . I said am fine as long as wife is comfortable. Boundaries have to be decided by wife not husband 😊. So pamper her , love her and pleasure her , spend time with her , jokes around , send gift to her , surprise her , flirt , leg pulling etc - all of this is fun ! and above all stretch her mental limits before you think of stretching anything else 😜. As usual your thoughts ? What does Indian wife needs most to express herself boldly ? We men have an important role to play to ensure women does not care about society and don’t need permission from anyone ! So we can celebrate women boldness at every step and encourage them for more .

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