I haven't been here that long: only about 3 months in all. But the blogs have been an entertaining ride so far.
However, I must say that in terms of piquing my interest, some subjects hit the spot whereas others I just take one look at and pass right on by. Some regular posters may feel they have to comment on almost anything, whereas other may be more selective.
Examples of stuff that I would tend to ignore would include fashion advice for TG/CDs, people who feel they have to tell the world about family bereavements, amateur erotic novellas, people who think everyone is interested in the fact they've just had sex (yawn....), or blogs where people seem to revel in abject self-pity.
In most cases I feel that such things are beyond my brief and that any comment I make would be of little value. In other cases I simply feel that such topics should not be really in the blogs at all: I mean if I meet someone and have sex, I wouldn't feel compelled to brag about it or invite comment.
I'm not a hard-hearted bastard, and obviously I feel sorry if anyone has had a distressing life experience. But again, if it happened to me, I wouldn't write about it in a blog or expect people to offer solace on the internet.
So what do people think? Does anyone else share my views? I concede that some people's altruism and empathy may extend well beyond my own range. But I'd be interested to know who finds what boring/irrelevant or just plain daft on here.
8:04 pm Sunday, 25th August, 2013
I'm not a hard-hearted bastard ...
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8:41 pm Sunday, 25th August, 2013
Thanks folks. I'm not arguing with people's right to blog. I'm simply trying to ascertain whether some people have aversions similar to my own. Even Olivers seems to be with me on the "I've just had a shag" issue :-) As I say - I sympathize with people who are in distress, but in choosing not to comment I'm simply reflecting what I'd expect from others if I were in the same situation. But that's just me: I'd want to keep it private and rely on close friends andor family. |
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9:40 pm Sunday, 25th August, 2013
PMSL@olivers |
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10:23 pm Sunday, 25th August, 2013
Kinky: You already have my full attention without having to resort to erotic fantasy :-) Besides, you may recall that I'm not above contributing the odd erotic vignette, although it's usually a knee-jerk response to someone being flirty ;-) |
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11:05 pm Sunday, 25th August, 2013
Good call on this one Skebbie. |
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11:25 pm Sunday, 25th August, 2013
FA: Damn !!!! :-) Any chance of lending them out next weekend? |
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11:52 pm Sunday, 25th August, 2013
Roslyn: You are perfectly entitled to post anything you wish, obviously. It's just that I'd be crap about advising you on dress-sense :-) Like you, I tend to be a realist rather than a fantasist, so this is why I tend to "move swiftly on" if someone has posted an erotic fairy tale. |
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9:41 am Monday, 26th August, 2013
I comment on blogs that seem to need an answer (that is, when I have something I really have to say, no matter how mundane). |
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10:47 am Monday, 26th August, 2013
ROSLYN, Oh, and it seems we have a little Yorkshire group forming
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11:17 am Monday, 26th August, 2013
I was toying with the idea of proposing a "Yorkshire bloggers' social" at my UK place (even though in my case the "Yorkshire" label is purely geographical), but then realized this particular group might not go down too well in the "local": a few years ago, while on a pub crawl with friends, I was actually *refused service* by a boor of a barman because he claimed I was gay. It seems hard to believe that such stuff still goes on, but in retrospect it amused me because I'm arguably one of the few straight men who have been on the receiving end of homophobia :-) It was a little reminiscent of that pub scene in "Withnail and I" where "I" is accused of being a "ponce" :-) |
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11:25 am Monday, 26th August, 2013
Skebbie, Roslyn
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11:42 am Monday, 26th August, 2013
"Ah yewst'll live in shoe box in't middle of the road....." |
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11:49 am Monday, 26th August, 2013
FA: Sorry, I was letting my imagination run away with me. For a brief moment I thought you might have been running a high-class escort agency, and planning a Berlusconi-style "bunga-bunga party". |
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11:53 am Monday, 26th August, 2013
Kinky: Presumably in gay bars ??? |
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11:58 am Monday, 26th August, 2013
jonnealas: Maybe you could accompany our group to ensure we don't get refused bar service :-) |
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12:06 pm Monday, 26th August, 2013
Skebbie
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12:07 pm Monday, 26th August, 2013
@Jonnealas, see Skebbie isn't a hard hearted B afterall. He didn't want you to feel left out. |
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3:33 pm Monday, 26th August, 2013
jon: Well that's a nice little plug for your youthfulness :-) Last time I went to B&Q I was asked whether I was interested in a senior citizen's saver card. I emerged crestfallen and utterly devastated :-) |
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4:37 pm Monday, 26th August, 2013
Haha.....that last post gave me a minute or two of genuine mirth..... |
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4:47 pm Monday, 26th August, 2013
FA: It just occurred to me that the pub clientele might have thought it curious a girl had just done the Three Peaks wearing heels and a mini-skirt. Maybe they were simply dumbfounded. |
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5:46 pm Monday, 26th August, 2013
I once got silly drunk in a local country pub with a friend who is a priest and yes, he was wearing his dog collar at the time. We were trying our best to play darts without laughing and as you can imagine we started to attract a fair amount of attention and disapproving looks. We were politely asked to leave when a stray dart broke a wall light. |
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7:03 pm Monday, 26th August, 2013
FA: It would have been even funnier if you'd been sitting on the summit in evening dress. |
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5:33 am Thursday, 6th February, 2014
Skebbie, I hope you don't mind, but I thought this blog of yours was worth revisiting in the hope that it generates some ideas.
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6:27 am Thursday, 6th February, 2014
Yeah I admit resurrecting blogs is a bit of a cop-out, but sometimes giving them a fresh airing can attract some new contributors. |
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10:07 am Thursday, 6th February, 2014
Missed this one first time around skebbie. |