The “Pleasure Dominant” Type is a bit of a unicorn honestly, there aren’t very many of them. Some Dominants may have streaks of this tendency in their makeup, but rarely do you find one that’s solely cast in this particular mold. This is the type of Dominant that derives the vast majority of their pleasure from sexually pleasuring their submissives. They will push their submissives to have as many orgasms as their submissive’s body can tolerate. However, there is more to it than unlimited orgasms. They pride themselves on being the sole source or fountain of sexual pleasure for their submissive, and typically no other “fountain” is allowed, meaning chastity reigns outside of this relationship, including even masturbation when you’re in a D/s relationship with this Dominant type. They’re typically very jealous about this and this is where you might see punishing behavior from them if that protocol is broken. A Pleasure Dominant learns and knows their submissive intimately physically, mentally, and emotionally. Their preferred activities help them discern these aspects. A basic full body tantric massage with oil, can tell them a lot about their submissive partner, where and how they like to be touched. In an advanced relationship, they can discern how to turn the submissive on without too much physical touch initially. Eventually a skilled Pleasure Dominant should be able to turn their submissive on just by talking to them. One submissive I know got literally dripping wet at the sound of her Dominant’s voice. These Dominants often enjoy the type of play that yields forced and spontaneous orgasms, and they thrive on sensation play involving things like light bondage, blindfolds, touches, caresses, pinches, slaps, e-stim, feathers, spiked spurs rolled over sensitive skin, the intimate caress or slap of a flog, the press of a vibrator or dildo. Since they derive their joy from their submissive’s pleasure, if the submissive’s pleasure is also found in pleasing the master too, then so much the better. I’ve even known some strict Mistresses that liked to play with a certain Pleasure Dominant, because they didn’t feel he threatened them in their dominance, they got only satiation in their sex drive… a full release without surrendering their dominant persona. If you’re looking for this type of Dominant, I wish you all the best. There are no precautions I’d give you other than making sure your heart is healthy enough for what they can dole out LOL. The next entry will be about the “Daddy/Mommy Dominant” Type.
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7:55 pm Tuesday, 21st February, 2023
Maybe I fall into this category. Who knows? We all play in private and like there are no judges score cards. I prefer to think of it as the Tao of BDSM. Pleasure and pain as two sides of the same experience. Find out what will make them ecstatic and what goes that little way over their pain threshold. The sharp shock that makes the pleasure more intense. Then overload their senses until the boundaries between pain and pleasure become blurred and they float off into sub-space. Work with them enough and I can make them cum just by talking or passing a hand near their favourite places or speaking on the phone. Their spontaneous orgasms roll on for days after a meeting. Embarrassing them at work, at home with their families, and once, famously, while sitting next to me at the opera. Only difference from your description, I don't care who they fuck outside of our relationship (although I may use it against them when playing) because I'm touching them somewhere really unique and special that no one banging away on the outside can get near. |
