There was nothing suggesting earlier in the evening that there would be a thrilling romp of role-playing on our date that night. We've been going out for a few weeks and it was fun. We enjoyed each other's company and spent time in each other's social circles.
One of the things I appreciated was our communication, particularly when we would get intimate. The first time we connected, an evening on the couch watching a movie, led to our shoes getting kicked off, to a foot massage, making out, and ultimately making love.
Then a moment happened during the kissing, rubbing, stroking, the "fun", I asked her, "Can I put my hand over your mouth?" It's a kink. The moans and grunts are some of the most sensual sounds a woman can make, well for me anyway. She said, "yes" without making me feel uncomfortable asking. Now, this didn't lead to bondage that night, but it was the moment that asking, talking about 'turns ons", and getting consent would go a long way in my physical relationships.
I am not fearless when it comes to the kinks and not everyone is into mine. But, talking honestly about it helps build trust with someone. And, that is sexy.
Being bound and gagged and trusting your partner enough to be both comfortable and excited with your kinks..., now that's sexy.
