I can remember "detective" magazines being on the racks at the supermarket in front of the store and just getting excited as I would glance at them. The covers would usually have cheesecake poses of a woman bound and gagged, wide-eyed, struggling to get loose. When I was younger I had no idea what I was feeling, I mean, I knew that those images of damsels aroused something, but it was hard to navigate those kinks and just regular hormones.
The number of times a partner and I role played, let alone introduced some bondage has been way too few and far between. The older I get the more I am comfortable talking about it. Granted, this is an activity that not only requires consent but trust and a little courage to step outside the comfort zone.
When you're interested in being honest with yourself and your partner, bondage can be such an overwhelming and thrilling experience. It is just so much fun especially as I get older.
Being bound and gagged and trusting your partner enough to be both comfortable and excited with your kinks..., now that's sexy.
