After a couple dates and getting to feel comfortable together. I ask her to consent to a play date. This gives us the opportunity to explore one anothers kinks and limits. I explained that I AM MOST TURNED ON BY THE GIFT OF SUBMISSION. I ask about her tolerance for pain with pleasure. her expectations on loyalty and what she needs for aftercare. She tells me with time comes trust and is willing to explore my hand as leader of our relationship. I explained the word red means stop, orange means please slow intensity.and yellow please slow but don't stop. We are both nervous and excited to get away together. I love the anticipation getting her naked and under my control. Wish us luck on a wicked weekend.
