The most direct way to take control of the bedroom is to introduce bondage. This can be as basic as blindfolding him during foreplay and/or sex. Or, it may involve binding his hands or otherwise restraining him. Either way, there is something incredibly erotic about the loss of control. Bondage puts him in a very vulnerable position, which for most men (whether they admit it or not) is a huge turn on.Binding his hands (or handcuffing him) is good for simple play. But, it is really worth experimenting with slightly more advance bondage. Probably the most popular bondage position is spread eagle - where both his and ankles are tied down to the bed. From this position he can squirm, but he won’t be able to escape. You meanwhile, have total control. You can play with body for as long as you desire. This may include giving him pleasure and stimulation of various kinds, or making him give you pleasure.For example, one rather evil, but fun, thing it try from this position is called face sitting: straddle his face while he’s tied up, and order him to give you oral pleasure. Or, pleasure yourself while he is restrained. Watching (or listening) to you pleasure yourself while not being able to participate (or touch himself) is an intense, but erotic torment for any man.Finally, if you really want be dangerous, use temperature to enhance his stimulation. Ice can really enhance both pleasure and pain…as can heat. You can, for example, drag ice across his chest or carefully drip hot wax on his body while he his restrained. (Please be careful though, hot wax can be dangerous…use caution!) Overall, bondage in its various forms is easiest way to turn your hunky man into your own personal little sex toy. Just be sure to play safe! Always use a safeword, and invest in a few toys designed for this type of play.
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3:26 pm Wednesday, 9th March, 2022
my exGF (Dominant) caught me watching femdom porn and I thought she would be a jealous vengeful wreck. But to my shock I remember the wicked smirk, it was almost like she had known from day one of my submissive impulses and was delighted to finally expose my weakness for Dominant women and justify her stepping up our Ms dynamic which at times I would go for long stretches in a kind of denial, as if we had never been kinky ever. I guess it was my fragile male ego getting the better of me and it lead to me succumbing to my sub impulses in secret. Looking back I think it was that she knew how much I adored her and litterally worshipped her seductive beauty (which I did with every ounce of passion in me) and also that we shared the same fetish for Female Supremacy as a cultural enigma where women empowered one another and hence evolved far beyond the limits of strickly private intimacy - these two truths that quelled any rage within her. But she had no intention of letting my weak juvinile feelings of shame ruin her...our dark pleasures, I needed to be punished and it was my feelings of guilt and shame that overpowered my other weaknesses like fear and shyness and ushered in bondage to our relationship so suddenly and with such furious intensity i can only find words to describe it by just recounting the details as acurate as pure truth of memory serves and you'll know why and laugh at my confession that my first bondage experience's every last detail is engraved into my very soul where mindfuck and subspace take on a whole new paradigm . . .(to be continued...immediatley if prompted via comments...) |
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10:23 pm Thursday, 10th March, 2022
Love your blog I would love to find a beautiful dominant female to tie me up and use me tease me make me beg to cum. |
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12:37 pm Saturday, 12th March, 2022
Good morning to you sexy.how are you doing this morning |
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7:09 am Thursday, 17th March, 2022
im game |
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6:05 pm Friday, 18th March, 2022
Nice, you got that going on 🔥 |
Truly I come with good intentions to give you the best opportunities you have always longed for.
