Introducing myself--a mature bi man

My wife gave up sex following menopause some 35 years ago. She said intercourse was painful. For a short while, I was content to eat her pussy--something I've always loved--but it was soon clear she had lost interest altogether.


While I supported her decision, I was not at all ready to give up sexual pleasure. I was reluctant to pursue a secret relationship with another woman--but sexual pleasure with men seemed somehow different. So I sought out men offering blowjobs--and found quite a few. I saw a couple of them several times but with most of the men I met, it was a quick blow and go.


Then one day, after I had cum, I completely astonished myself by offering to reciprocate. I think he was surprised too, but nonetheless got naked too and with no hesitation I went down on him. It was the first time since I was very young, that I had a cock in my mouth--but I found that I loved it! His cock was a bit on the small size, maybe five inches long and average girth, but it felt so hard and so soft in my mouth, both at the same time. When he told me he was about to cum, I didn't hesitate at all: I swallowed his cum without a second thought. It tasted a little salty but otherwise had little taste. I loved it!


That was the beginning for me. I was in my early to mid 40s at the time, and over the past 30-plus years I've swapped cum with a lot of other men. In fact, almost my entire sexual history since then has been with men.


In blog posts yet to come, I expect to explore various aspects of what this new direction has meant to me. For example, I expect to describe some of my experiences in a bit of detail, including my discovery that many men give up the strictly women-only straight life at midlife.  I'll address questions like, Am I only fooling myself describing myself as bi? Am I really gay? And I hope to recount some favorite experiences from throughout my life.

I hope you enjoy this post and return for more. Please let me know when something rings a bell for you or causes that tingling stirring in you.

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